I've been together with my boyfriend for several years and we used to be really intimate without losing my virginity. Last year he had to move to another city for work, he came once a month and we never broke up. Now that he is back, I am having trouble being so intimate with him. I am sure that he has noticed it but he hasn't said anything. Is it normal to feel this way?
2006-09-09 13:13:19 · 11 answers · asked by Amy H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Normal, don't fret. Soon things will be back on track...
2006-09-09 13:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships go through different periods, which might be happening with you. The thing you need to think about is maybe why you don't feel the same about him. Did something happen to cause a change or are there issues that you are dealing with that are causing you to act differently? You need to really think about it, because feelings usually don't change without something going on in the backround.
2006-09-09 20:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its what happens when long distance relations happen. Next time he comes start intimately kissing him then go on from there. Make a nice night for the two of you.
Hope it goes well!
2006-09-09 20:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, do u knw why u suddenly feel awkward with him? maybe u lost some of that love u had when he moved away. have a heart to heart talk with him and figure things out.
2006-09-09 20:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by hilary_aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you feel that hes cheated on you, that could have something to do with it maybe you just didnt love him as much as you thought now hes back and you dont know what to do cant just pick up where you left off
2006-09-09 20:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by augydoggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is... He's there all the time and you aren't trying to squeeze in lovin during the short time he was home. Just be sure you aren't taking him for granted because he's home.
2006-09-09 20:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by lnfinitelylnteresting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...well yes it is kuz i went threw the same thing! iswear i felt the same way to! but i just let love take its path and everything worked out and me and him are still together so just be your self and open up and tell him thats what i did and if he really knows you then he will understand y u feel that way .so im not telling u to tell him but thats wat i would do... good luck!!!
2006-09-09 20:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by thick_chikk_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is really normal unless the separation has cooled you down as far as having sex with him.
2006-09-09 20:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is because you have moved on with out him.even if you are with him,you are not,just give him his freedom to move on say good bye.
2006-09-09 20:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time.
2006-09-09 20:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋