im a freshman and theres like three juniors/sophmores that always want me to go to parties and stuff with them...and i know its just cuz they want to to take advantage of me...if ya know wat i mean. how do i tell them to back off without sounding prude or bitchy?
2006-09-09 13:09:19 · 7 answers · asked by roxychik 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you can do it without being bitchy. You just have to be totally honest with guys because we don't get it if you're not straight foward. Once they see you don't have any interest, they'll leave you alone and go elsewhere. That's how guys are.
2006-09-09 13:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Dean-o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the parties with some friend so they can help you out when it gets too hot. You know, keep an eye and ear out. Try to meet a hot guy or two you might be willing to leave with the party with along with your friends. Make sure that the other guys see that you are with this guy and not your friends. And also make sure that the juniors and sophmores see you leave with this guy. Make sure that none of the other guys know him first, that way you can tell them when the ask you about him that you are seeing him. You know like he's your man.
2006-09-09 20:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by what attitude? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you are not interested in dating them and to please stop asking you. I would also suggest that you take a look at yourself and the way you portray yourself since you seem to attract these type of guys. Cover the belly, wear clothes that are the right size and no cleavage showing......know what I mean????
2006-09-09 20:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl goes though that as a freshman just tell them like it is.
2006-09-09 20:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.JN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a prude.
2006-09-09 20:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no means no, sweetie. if you don't want nothing with them, tell them gently and sincerely.
2006-09-09 20:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Tathi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"jail bait"
2006-09-09 20:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋