I am single at midage , and hah a very unhappy relationship before, but it seems i am not regret about it , 'cause i am boring ,do you think i shoud find a one more relationship , and how can't i be hurt? thank you for help. So far i don't have any boyfriend and lover
2006-09-09 13:05:50 · 14 answers · asked by annesweetyfl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes it is the failure of the past relationship that cause us to be afraid of starting a new relationship. It is quite normal as being humans we are always afraid of getting hurt. Going into a relationship does not relate if a person is boring or exciting, it is more of how can you handle the relationship especially you have a unhappy relationship before. You can't expect to be unhurt in any relationship coz there might be times you can't agree things with your partner and quarrel will arises. This may result you being getting hurt. I can't really advice if you should have a boyfriend coz everybody thinks differently. The most important thing is that you have to decide if you are ready to start a new relationship and able to accept the facts should your relation fails again. This are the answer you know it better than us
2006-09-09 20:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to be single then don't look for another relationship. If on the other hand you do want a relationship you must go out and look for one but remember there are no guarantees that you will find someone or that you will not be hurt. The only way not to be hurt in any relationship is not to get into one. that is for any relationship, whether it is romantic or friends. Life only has one guarantee and that it will end in death.
2006-09-09 13:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First- i'd get a clean recommendations-set. No insult meant. precise under your nostril there are alluring issues happening, and exciting human beings to share it with.( new attitude perhaps?) 2nd- get entangled with something on your community that feeds a keenness of yours.touch the chamber of commerce and ask what is going on the place you reside.( company, human beings,projects,theater,--right here is in all probability a protracted record) next- without understanding you and what your like i'll additionally throw contained in the Peace middle. You get to fulfill impressive human beings and return and forth.great journey. maximum suitable to you and would your coronary heart be chuffed no count number what you do.
2016-09-30 12:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can nvr find perfect love, even the most loving of couples quarrel n tiffs occasionally, so dont ever let a setback deter u from trying for another relationship once again, b strong stand proud gal, believe in yrself ok, u r not boring, its juz that nobody appreciates yr character thats all, u are who u are ok! hehe yeah...
2006-09-09 13:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by larrysbt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
companionship . . . thats our weakness. once bitten twice shy but wise!
if relationships you're after, try and get involved but dont have too high hopes for a steady one.
short and steady ones maybe good and be patient, there're guys who need gals like us for companionship too. just lleave it to fate or you can make it come true...entirely depends on you.
2006-09-09 19:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get hurt or not it's all up to u.... know a guy well b4 u get into a relationship.... b ur true self in front of him... let him know wat kind of person u r..... if u've did dat & he still tells u he love u den congratulations..... u've got the right guy.... if u r tryin to get one bcos u r borin den u might as well get a young lover and feed them......
u're alreadi in ur midage.... i belive noone here can gif u a realli good advise on wat u should do...... u've gone thru more then us....
2006-09-10 15:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by wonderland83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the problem is not that you are a boring person, but it is your English. Try to brush it up, and maybe, and I emphasize maybe, you will find the person of your dream.
2006-09-09 16:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by J L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of trying to find a boyfriend, try practicing your English.
2006-09-09 13:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I be yr boyfriend.I'm down to earth person.Have a good career & presentable.in my mid 30s.
2006-09-09 13:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there is someone out there for everyone. Keep trying and pray about it.
2006-09-09 13:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋