there is this girl i like, really like, but whenever i see her i dont know what to say. i freeze up. any help?
2006-09-09 12:55:12 · 27 answers · asked by Kevin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love you
2006-09-09 12:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. first off.. dont show a woman any signs of weakness. What I mean by this is, dont be nervous. Be the cool, calm, and collected person in the conversation. (Women like a guy who is in control of his life and is not the least bit nervous and intimidated by her presence)
Now if you are thinking of talking to her about any of the following things: job, family, weather, or anything else cliche I want you to take yourself out to a private location, raise your right hand and wave it rapidly across your face.
When you go talk to this girl, dont say something boring and predictable. Say something out of the ordinary, something she wouldnt expect. Doing this will portray that you are talking to this girl for fun and not expecting anything to happen between you and her. Once you make initial contact and establish the vibe that "hey, Im in control of my life and Im not the least bit intimidated by you".
Once you establish this vibe, YOU become the prize or the item to chase after. Not her. Also, dont keep the conversation going for more than 5 minutes. Keep it short, mysterious, and always leave her wanting more.
So
1) Be confident, cool, collected
2) Go into the conversation with a fun and happy attitude
3) Think of something wild and exciting to say to her (in other words dont be predictable)
4) Dont be afraid of something bad happening and portray a vibe that says "I know who I am and in no way are you intimidating me"
5) Keep the conversation short, flirty, and fun.
If all of this fails then I suggest you move on and apply these tactics to another girl. Just dont act predictable and boring.
2006-09-09 13:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by evilcheerioman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile and say hi. Observe what her likes are, girls usually have stuff on their notebooks or in their desk or locker which will give you a hint about what she likes or enjoys to do. After you find out what one of those things are, start a conversation about it. Like hey, I noticed you like ... then continue the conversation adding your opinion about it.
2006-09-09 13:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are some free lessons:
First hide your watch...go to her and ask her, do you have the time?...after the answer ask her, is there is a nice place around to have lunch, dinner ,or what ever you think is the time for snack?....get your answer next ask her what are you go to do later? she will answer... you will said what about going to the place that you recommend to me for lunch...if she said no ask for the fallowing day or when she will think is right...if you get her to go out with you, you have to make your best impression and get her just one rose and give to her.
I am sure if ou are at this point you will know what to do next just don't rush.
2006-09-09 13:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Soyam I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask questions about herself, her family. Ask her what her best vacation was and then to tell you all about it. If you are trying to get her to share more, then don't judge what she likes, just listen and nod and smile. Find out if there are some bands she likes and then bring them up next time you see her. Invite her to a show somewhere.
2006-09-09 12:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one conversation leads into another, especially if the interest is there on both parts. so when you first meet her, ask her how her day is going, she'll either be negative or positive, then elaborate on the answer. example: Hi----, how's your day going? (she)it's ok, but I lost my exam paper, (you)oh, no, where did you have it last? etc, etc, this will show her you care about little things, and are not afraid to talk to her. good luck
2006-09-09 13:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by misselliet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out talking about something in the news that you both have something to say about. If you have a hobby, talk a little about that. Ask if she has any hobbies, or who is her favorite movie star, or movie. Does she like to go the movies?
2006-09-09 12:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Garnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to go shopping with you to help you pick out some new clothes (for yourself)because you think she has a really cool style . believe me girls love that .that could spark conversation and get u a date then when you're at the mall ask her if shes hungry and take her out to lunch or dinner.
2006-09-09 12:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by L.A. WOMAN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well ask her about her day, ask her about yesterday, open a subject, say anything [not stupid things], know what she likes and talk to her in that subject when a girl is intrested she will keep talking for days...
2006-09-09 12:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Bassem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some anti-freeze!
2006-09-09 12:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me, but I noticed you from over there, and decided that If I don't get your number and take you out very soo , I'm going to really feel awful about myself and regret it forever. Can you help me?
2006-09-09 12:58:31 · answer #11 · answered by troyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋