when i go to the football games, the high school guys say i need a girlfriend. they all date. they made some suggestions for girlfriends, some i like, some thoughts need rethinking. should i listen to thier suggestions, or are they just being annoying?........... I am 13 and i really wAnt a girlfriend, So i do not want any ansswers saying i do not need a girlfreind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-09 12:52:48 · 28 answers · asked by king cobra 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask someone out that you like then. It doesn't have to go anywhere. Just pick a girl that you think would be interested and say 'Hey, Do you want to go to the game with me?' If she says no it's not the end of the world and if you don't enjoy her company, you can always ask a different girl next time.
2006-09-09 12:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should be open to suggestions especially when they are from people with more experience. however, make sure you like the girl you choose. make sure you actually have a very deep connection before you jump into things. if you're looking for something that'll burn out fast, just look for the hottest. if you actually want a deep relationship, don't move too fast. make sure you get the girl to like you for who you are and don't put up an act. let her know you care and understand her. whatever you do, don't push her into anything she doesn't want to do. also, if people are talking about you and her, just ignore because they're just jealous and have no lives. look for someone you're attracted to and have things in common. if you really want a girlfriend, you have to make yourself girl-friendly. be cute and funny. show off your skills in what you can do. oh, and smell good. that's important. listen to other people, but don't lose sight of your principles. not everyone has the same taste in girls. you'll find someone, just don't rush without thinking! hope i helped. i've have my first love at 13 too. i got hurt pretty bad.
2006-09-09 20:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The high school guys are acting macho...ignore them. If you want a girlfriend that's fine. Find a girl that you like. Be polite, friendly and let her know you like her. If that doesn't work out, it happens sometimes. Just move on until you find another girl you're interested in. Be respectful and don't rush things. You're only 13.
2006-09-09 20:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some may say 13 is too young to start dating but its not. If you want a girl friend make the effort. Pick a girl, show some interest and ask her out.
2006-09-09 19:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by Just♥Brie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your WANTING a girlfriend; however, experience has taught me that when we exert so much effort LOOKING for that girlfriend, we do one of three things:
1) Start a relationship we wouldn't otherwise start as it was started for the wrong reasons,
2) Having entered into a relationship, we become closed-minded and also blind to truer possiblities and may miss out on something so WONDERFUL and special... why? because we were dating the wrong person for the wrong reasons
3) We lose focus of what's important to us and never find that right person, whether she's Ms. Right, or Ms. Right now, we become so engulfed in finding "her" we may never!
So I say, it is A-OK to want that girl now, but what you MUST realize, is that you can't look for it or force it. Please take it from me, I've done this many times and have learned by now that what is special (whether it's love, lust, or fun...) is something that JUST HAPPENS. Hold on, hold on to yourself and she will come!
Confidence and self-assurance is so very sexy in a guy! Don't look to eager or cocky, and you'll find, when it rains, it pours! :)
2006-09-09 20:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by anonymouswoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't llisten to them or let them pressure you into having a girlfriend. You're 13, so there's plenty of time later in life for girlfriends. If they keep bugging you about it, let them know all the positive things about no having a girl. You can talk to who you want to and since you don't have a gf, you can talk to as many girls (as friends) that you want to and don't have to worry about your gf getting jealous, etc. Your saving money because you just have to pay for your ticket and your food instead of buying for two.
2006-09-09 20:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but thirteen is too young. I know "everyone" is "dating" at thirteen, but really, girls will just get in your way and create horrible problems. And plus when you get older and start dating the girls will find it adorable that you've never dated. Just wait for that special girl to come along, don't just go out with a girl just because.
2006-09-09 19:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by Demetria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just go to the games and have fun with your friends! You are too young to worry about girls...they are not all what they're cracked up to be. Tell your friends to mind their own business; you'll find a girlfriend when you're ready.
2006-09-09 19:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, if you want to take a girl to the football game great...there is no rule saying that you absolutedly need a girlfriend, (they'll cost you money, etc) I'm sure there is a young lady who likes you, see if she likes football....good luck
2006-09-09 19:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by misselliet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry. but did u just say u want a girlfriend just bcoz ur friends said u need one? that's one of the stupidest reason ive heard. no offense. get a girlfriend when u find that one person u'll love. have a heart, dnt hurt other girl's feelings by using them as ur key chain to show off to ur friends.
2006-09-09 19:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by hilary_aaron 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋