2006-09-09 12:50:54 · 11 answers · asked by JULIE H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well we have friends,and why are we friends with them?? think about it,we find them funny,good to be with,a laugh,you can tell them anything,they comfort u wen yr down,and are generally there for good and bad,so we can get a little confused as to our feelings.being close to someone can blur the bounderies of whats friendly or sexual in nature.you have to realise that its the person and not a gender we can fall for.be careful,if you wish to go further,make sure she will be understanding and not freak out,jeopardising the whole friendship.good luck there,and enjoy the ride! : )
2006-09-09 15:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mistress j 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming your mate is a girl, which is perfectly normal. Although most girls won't admit it, we often get crushes on those of the same sex. It doesn't mean that your are either gay nor bi.. simply curious and find that that person has a quality to them that you find very attractive.
There is nothing wrong with experimenting, but there is also nothing wrong with a simple crush/lust.
2006-09-09 12:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by static_nerdling 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on even if she is the in worry-free words lady you're fascinated in. If she is, then i'd say its merely affection it really is somewhat more beneficial than you're used to experiencing. besides, (instantly / bi / gay) are in worry-free words hues of gray between black and white. every person ought to have an interest in a member of a similar gender - it does no longer advise that you're gay/bi or something else. Why attempt to 'pigeonehole' your self. you're merely you - be smooth with that. life will throw adequate **** at you without including more beneficial through complicating your thoughts. merely stay as you note in tremendous condition, and reason as little damage as plausible on your way with the help of life.
2016-10-15 23:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it as it's perfectly normal to feel this way from time to time especially when you're young and still discovering yourself
2006-09-09 12:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by carl_marriott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crush?
2006-09-09 12:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by Amazing Magenta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your mate is a girl then you are without a doubt are in denial, sorry but thats just the way it is, being gay is not a choice.
2006-09-09 12:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by India 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is giving off vibes to you or maybe you should just follow youre natural instincts.try it you may enjoy it and it could be the best thing that ever happend to you.good luck ian.
2006-09-09 13:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ian I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it because your mate is a guy?
2006-09-09 12:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know, but it seems to be drastically affecting your spelling as well.
2006-09-09 12:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by emeraldisle2222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK BECAUSE YOU FIND HER ATTRACTIVE AND IT SPILLS OVER TO U THINKING U WANT HER, OR U MIGHT JUST FIND HER"PERSON" VERY ATTRACTIVE INSIDE
2006-09-09 12:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by shannonlee05@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋