he wants me to move to be with him. which means moving to america. i wanna jump right in because i love him, but why does it have to be that i am the one to go? when i say i'm not sure because of this, he says i have no faith in the relationship. everything else is perfect. he is great and i love him.
2006-09-09 12:46:29 · 14 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know it should be him who comes to be with you, the thing I know is that My fiancee and I lived 2,0010 miles apart and I wanted to be with her SO Bad! and we dated for about 8 months before I ever even saw her in person, oh how I waited for some Miracle to happen where I could be with her and she could be with me, Well when we met she came to see me, and then we made a promise, she would come and get me and bring me back home with her for she loved me, and that is what she did and we have stayed with each other for 2 years and a month now, So go get him and bring him back home with you, believe me he won't ever forget it! SB
2006-09-09 12:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by E.F. Landeros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he truly loved u he would understand where ur coming from. Tell him how u feel and if he puts the " if u really love me u will" trip on you, tell him u do love him but he's got to give a little too! Communication is the key factor in a relationship so through it all, make sure you all talk about it!
2006-09-09 12:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY BOYFRIEND IS AWAY TOO AND I THINK THE DISTANCE MAKES ME MORE IN LOVE WITH HIM EVERY DAY BECAUSE I HAVE A CHANCE TO MISS HIM AND ANTICIPATE SEEING HIM. I CHERISH EVERY MOMENT THAT WE SPEND OVER THE PHONE AND I DON'T EVEN HAVE THE CHANCE TO BEGIN TO TAKE HIM FOR GRANTED.
I WOULD SAY IF YOU LOVE HIM THEN MOVE TO AMERICA. WHEN WE GET READY TO GET MARRIED, IF HE WANTS ME TO MOVE TO WHERE HE IS, THEN I'LL JUST HAVE TO MOVE, BUT I WOULD MUCH MORE PREFER THAT HE MOVE WHERE I AM.
P.S. WE AMERICANS ARE NOT AS AWFUL AND ARROGANT AS PEOPLE THINK WE ARE. I'M A FIRM BELIEVER THAT IF IT'S MEANT TO BE, THEN IT WILL BE. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-09 12:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sweetie, it is not that easy to move to the USA from a foreign country in this day and age. Why would he want to live in any other country if you are an American?? I would suggest that you end the relationship and find someone in your own country.....it is doomed! He just Loves his country more than he does you!
2006-09-09 12:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why doesn't he move to where you are ask him really. what you really need to ask yourself is who would loose more by moving ? personal I wouldn't move to another country fro anyone with out a ring and a wedding date!! really that is a big commitment and if you or are not ready than reconsider moving. And why can't he move to you?he needs to be will to slay a dragon but he can't even move to you? think on it girl!
2006-09-09 12:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Florida Dawn 13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So whats the problem? Get packing... You will love America.
2006-09-09 12:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
everything is not perfect if u are on here asking this question and if he is emotionally blackmailing u. if i was u id say to him i dont want to move and if you love me you will come back home
2006-09-09 12:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love him and WANT TO be with him forever well then MOVE if not WALK AWAY NOW~
2006-09-09 12:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya,
I moved to america after I married my husband in germany....actually he was an american working in germany...if you love him then go ahead...you'll like it here.
PS: if you don't i'm sure he'll find someone else here in the states....we have lots of hot peeps here ... :-)
2006-09-09 12:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why it should be you who moves. ask why he doesnt move to where you are. i mean being the man and all he should have some manners at least should he not? i think it would be very rude of him to ask you to move. does he not have a spine? it isnt very gentleman-like to ask you to move. he should stop being a coward. that is my opinion. maybe its just me.
2006-09-09 12:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by pevehead 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋