You'd supposed to have met her at a club only to decide not to. to her annoyance, then turn up and she's wasted on drink/drugs, virtually blanks you and leaves with her friend and two guys.
Then she texts and phones to apologise and wants to meet. Bear in mind that it wouldn't have happened had you been there, although what followed was barely forgivable.
2006-09-09 12:34:11 · 36 answers · asked by rockinrobin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't go back with her if she into drug thats a lot of drama right there
2006-09-09 12:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Vanessa~Yeah!! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Life shows you situations in life that happen only to other people,until it happens to you.
You alone can decide your road to ruin or the better road to a life.
You take her back when bridge was burnt,then she will not only think you are a good guy,but one that will put up with this rubbish that she does and only has to apologies.
Believe me,i am such a mug (10 yrs plus now ),and have forgiven so many times i don`t think there i have no any more bridges she can burn,but i wouldn`t be suprised if she finds more.
2006-09-09 12:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by asmoothrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This Red Flag of her being wasted on drink/drugs,virtually blanks you and leaves with her friend and two guys. I would call it a day and move on.
How can you ever trust her again, not to mention not knowing what those two guys did to her when she was wasted. This Red Flag is a Gold Mine and i would find some one else.
2006-09-09 12:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold on whos to say she had sex with anyone? right look at it this way,u stood her up and was annoyed that she didnt wait for you,were u expecting her to do this?she finds someone else to chat and get to know.barely forgivable? your pushing it there,you hurt her,did you expect her to fall into yr arms as soon as u turned up? this is how i see it- you p*ssed her off she got drunk and may or may not have done the deed with someone else.but she wants you both to have a second chance.both did something stupid,it cancells each other out.start a fresh.u want to see her? go for it and if it doesnt work out,at least it was tried
2006-09-09 15:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mistress j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First take some time to cool off.Then decide whether or not she is genuine about the apology, but nontheless still go just to find out what happened. After hearing her side of the story decide whether or not you want her back. If you dont, then be on your merry way.
2006-09-09 12:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by xodusj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you both did was wrong...however..if you were in a serious realtionship then she sould have never done the barely forgivable things in the first place. It's up to you...if you feel you can trust her and you love her then give it a shot...but don't let her treat you like a doormat.
2006-09-09 12:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE U STUPID? Wasted on drink / drugs? Left with 2 guys? -even if I i was a guy with my dick vacuum wrapped it wouldn't be going there.
You never dated her! To be stood up and the guy turn up later I'd be pissed no 2ND chance. But if she's the type to shag another guy out of spite before you even date says something.
2006-09-10 10:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to kick that girl to the curb and never look back! She is way to young to have such baggage! If you get back with her she will eventually bring you down right with her. Evidently she has some deep rooted issues. There are too many fish in the sea you need to through that one back!
2006-09-09 12:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by Patress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the impression that you upset her...a heck of a lot, and when you're upset you can behave fairly erratically...I wouldn't take this as normal behaviour for her and although I don't condone her behaviour (but yours was pretty out of order too) i think you should give her another chance...
ttfn ;o)
2006-09-09 12:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by Pan_24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U obviously wasn't that bothered about her if u didnt intend to meet her in the first place and she obviously wasnt that bothered if she went home with someone else. U should both just move on!
2006-09-09 13:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you already forgave her. It also sounds like you are both not trustworthy. Maybe perfect for each other.
You stood her up, a big mistake
She got wasted and left with people, if she had sex with strangers wasted, another big mistake
I've done stupid things too
2006-09-09 12:39:31 · answer #11 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋