This girl I know is dating this guy who told her he's straight, and many non-mistakeable clues point towards bi on him. She really likes him a lot, and is dating him non-exclusively so far. She's worried though that they are starting off with a lie about his orientation. What do you think she should she do?
2006-09-09 12:34:10 · 12 answers · asked by SoCalQT23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's with her, he's straight while he's with her. If they get closer, she can ask him about relationships that are all over. If relationships aren't all over, it doesn't that much matter if they're gay or straight, does it?
2006-09-09 12:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by chilixa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if he said he is straight. maybe he doesnt want her to know that he liked guys. i think in all fairness he should be allowed to keep that sort of thing to himself. if she cares about her he probably thinks that saying he is bisexual would have given off the wrong impression. weather he is bi or straight shouldnt matter. he is with her and wants to be with her. so he has no need to want men at this point.
2006-09-09 12:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by pevehead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really isn't sure about his own orientation. She needs to talk to him. Make sure she is being nice about and as non-offending as possible. She needs to give him examples of why she feels the way she does too. Good luck. Simply comfonting him may make him run.
2006-09-09 12:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by rascal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie him up, nail him up the poop chute with a strap on. If he likes it, he's at least bi, and probably a full fledge homo. Then again, it could cause him to fall madly in love with her and then she will never get rid of him.
2006-09-09 12:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by Trip S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should ask him if he is bi sexual and tell him to be straight with her and if she still think that he is not telling her the truth she needs to leave him because at the end she will get hurt so badly.and she needs to worry about stds and hiv etc.if he is bi he needs to be honest with himself and with her and any others he gets involved with.
2006-09-09 12:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by lady-t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proceed with great caution for if he is untruthful about something so important - what else would this person make light of?
Too much at risk here!
2006-09-09 12:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. It is not up to her to select his preferences. If he like girls right now, then go with it.
2006-09-09 12:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhhmm if he is starting out this way then what eles hasn't he told her?or has and has lied about.I would say see ya.
2006-09-09 12:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A BI MALE HAS DANGEROUS POSSIBILITIES. HIV IS COMMON IT BI MALES. THAT MIGHT BE SOMETHING YOUR FRIEND SHOULD CONSIDER, ALONG WITH HIS LACK OF CREDIBILITY.
2006-09-09 12:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away as fast as she can. Below is her future.....
2006-09-09 12:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋