ok so im a senior and ive been dating a girl for 1 year. before her i dated a girl for almost 10 months. other than that, ive had no relationships and never kissed another girl
we have an incredible relationship, and we are very "pure" if you know what i mean, and im ok with that
but its my senior year and i cant help but feel like im missing out on 100s of other girls i could be testing the water with
am i being selfish? i would never cheat on my gf, so basically, i want to know if i should just break up with her and have fun (since, in all probability, we will break up someday anyways) or is a good long relationship worth it, even in hs?
2006-09-09 12:14:14 · 11 answers · asked by wanderer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you're okay with being "pure."
Would it be all right with you for her to break up with you and go "test the waters?"
If you don't plan on having a long-term, ending-up-in-marriage- relationship with her, do her a favor and break up with her as soon as possible. She could be out dating men who think more of her than you do, instead of wasting her time with someone who thinks he'll break up with her someday anyway.
2006-09-09 12:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dated one guy seriously my Freshman and Sophmore years and got dumped when he left for college. Then I turned right around and dated a different guy my Junior, and Senior years in HS and my Freshman year in college, then he cheated on me. Looking back, I'm now 28, married, and have two kids, If you are questioning that you are missing out on something you probably are. Not just the opportunity to meet new people, but the one time you have in your life to have nearly zero responsibily and obligations. ie; no spouse, kids, mortgage, etc. etc. etc. If I could go back knowing what I know now. I would have just enjoyed HS. HS kids always want to be more grown up, trust me I was just like that, once your out of HS and college, real responsibility starts. Have fun, but if you love her go for it, there is nothing like HS romance!
2006-09-09 19:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kayla 123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess regardless of the amount of time invested in a relationship even the best of us wonder if we missed out or are missing out on anything.......grass seems greener on the other side theory.
But sometimes it may be "legend in my own mind" theory to think you may have multiples of options....for if they were probable - most likely would have been there before this relationship started.
Follow your heart, if the questions continue but be honest enough with the other person to share these concerns rather than hitting them from out of the blue with a new revelation.
Pray and follow your heart!
Wish you much happiness whomever it may be with!
2006-09-09 19:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, dont't break her heart. It sounds like you all have a good relationship. Don't lose that just to date around, you never know, you may not find another one that is as good as what you got now. I'm a senior in hs to and I dont think anything is wrong with having a long term relatioship.
2006-09-09 19:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are having doubts, break up with her, it's not fair to put her through it. but don't expect to get back with her anytime soon, girls tend to hold grudges about that sort of thing. So what you really have to decide is would it bother you if she was doing the same thing? If so,think twice about following your whims. If not your relationship won't last anyways, so go for it.
2006-09-09 19:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by KELLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test the waters if that's what you really want. I knew sooooo many people who only dated one person in high school and of course when we graduated they all broke up. (Graduated 5 years ago) It was such a waste of time. I'm not going to lie...only the truly committed will last after high school. Good luck with your decision.
2006-09-09 19:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Missing out on other girls is a feeling that will always linger, but the question is do you want to be a "typical" person and go for others or do you want something greater?
2006-09-09 19:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with her since you clearly have lost interest in the relationship. Do it now so she has time to find another guy for the prom.
2006-09-09 19:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SInce this is an issue that bothers you, yes, most definitely.....break up with her and see what life has to offer. However, I will assume that you will go off to college and that is really another phase of your life......so, the decision is yours.
2006-09-09 19:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you kiss her if not cheat on her
P.S.if she is serious she would have kiss you
2006-09-09 19:17:40 · answer #10 · answered by Will 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋