My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. I know I'm ready to have sex with him now, but I want to wait until he's out of high school (he's a senior, I'm a college freshman...). There's honestly no rush, because we love each other and know it'll happen when the time is right. But I have to admit that as a virgin, there's obviously things I don't know (he's a virgin too). Did anyone else have a similar experience, or could I get some advice?
And just to clarify, I'm already on the pill for a completely unrelated reason, and we'd definitely use a condom as well...
2006-09-09 12:01:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just in case someone flips about the amount of time we've been dating, we'd been very close for a year before that.
2006-09-09 12:02:14 · update #1
It will be a wonderful experience for you. Just don't think it's going to be as mindblowing as you see in the movies. It's a little akward at first but give it 2 or 3 more times. Good luck and have fun!
2006-09-09 12:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, wait. The first time is not the best and if it's a first for both of you it will be even worse. Every one is in a hurry to have sex. Believe me, once you lose your virginity you have the rest of your life to have sex. You abviously have held onto your virginity well past the time lots of girls do so why not wait until you know "he's the one".
2006-09-09 12:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by Karen M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time may be awkward, but keep trying.
I'm glad you're prepared, and on birth control and protecting yourself from STD's.
My other advice would be to wait until you're married. I'm not religious or anything, but I do know that it's amazing doing it with someoone you know you're going to spend the rest of your life with.
2006-09-09 12:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start asking what he likes, oops you both haven't gone there yet great for both of you !!! I'm sure you both have masturbated and thought of things you'd like to do to or for each other express them talk about it see what feels good . If it feels good you cant go wrong! go slow and enjoy make it last for hours . do some thing special like flower pedals on the bed and candles are always good.
2006-09-09 12:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by wanderlust111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was you i would just go ahead and wait till i got married yeah he might be special to you but just think how much more special i t would be if waited that much longer trust me once its gone you will never get it back and if you and him dont work out guys will always expect that from you trust me but good luck with your prob!!!
2006-09-09 12:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by chas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be safe and responsible.u will know what to do when it is time.if it is both of yours first time just remember that there are many more times to come.don't let your first time discourage you from sex in the future.you both will be very nervous.it gets better and better each time.
2006-09-09 12:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait at least one year to make sure you both love each other deeply before you go that far
2006-09-09 12:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by aimee R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have fun, make out, let him kiss your boobs and all over. be sexy, hot, and let him take off the bra and thong. be ready to be sexy
2006-09-09 12:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't expect too much your first time, but you'll love it
2006-09-09 12:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Penetration
2006-09-09 14:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by what attitude? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋