Theres this guy i like in school and I want to go to the dance with him. He is really nice and sooo cute. He talks to me in class even if there are two boys in class yet he talks to me. But every time I talk to him I get really nervous. I'm also afraid of rejection. I'm thinking about putting a secret admirer note in his locker. Does he like me? Should I ask him? Should I write a secret admirer note? Oh and I heard he wanted to take a girl in his class to the dance. HELP!!
2006-09-09 12:00:47 · 15 answers · asked by <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He dosen't have a date i asked but we both want to go!!
2006-09-09 12:04:23 · update #1
ask him!
2006-09-09 12:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the same way us girls like and admire confidence in a guy they admire that about us too so-- just be bold and ask him out. Sending a secret admirer note is cute but anonymous, chances are he won't know it's you. If he likes you he will hope that it's you, but still won't know for sure. The best way to end the debate with yourself is to just ask him out and/or let him know that you like him. It's ok to be nervous it says that you like him.
2006-09-09 19:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by BaBy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants something else them he may not want you but don't rely on the class "gossiper". As for the secret admirer note, he'll probably think it's one of his friends. If he figures it out though, you'll be embarrassed. Talking to you in front of friends is brave and a brownie point so don't be as nervous. If you calm down, don't be clingy, and be friendly then he will view you as laid back and nice. He may consider you as girlfriend or date material or he may not. The only way to know is ask him. If i were in your shoes I'd make my move!!!
2006-09-09 19:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by K.I.S.S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt put the secret admire note in there just cuz thts so 3rd grade but if you really like him then just get some guts and ask him or hint around it and see if he asks you im sure it will all work out good luck sweetie
2006-09-09 19:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by chas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's already talking to you then that's a good sign. Just relax and be yourself, keep talking to him and things should take care of themselves. I would reccomend not writing him the note because it may throw him off if he really does liek you.
2006-09-09 19:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by injureddancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just not be afraid and tell him! Chances are he likes you,. If you are nervous you should get talking to him first EG: ask him questions about girls, who he likes, stuff like that, if he likes you then he may be shy and hide it but if you tell him first he is sure to tell you! Good luck!
2006-09-09 19:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go with the note, I would drop hints. "What are you doing this weekend, I'm probably going to be bored as hell." Ask him to help with homework. Throw him a rope and he'll grab it I'll bet.
2006-09-09 19:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by crzybob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him through a friend. It's the highschool way of getting things done. Or was it have the friend tell him to ask you, so that way it's not like your asking he was asking he just had some proding?
Just be careful, I married one of my highschool sweet hearts.
2006-09-09 19:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by Politics As Usual, Card Game 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and find out more he might be nervous to ask you . try to ask him but i cannot give you he will say yes if he does tats your answer but dont get discouraged if he says no because he is the dumb one and there are other fish in the sea you are young.
2006-09-09 19:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out if he already has a date to this dance. If he does, leave him alone. If he doesn't, go for it!
2006-09-09 19:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him u better go for it cause another girl might like him too and ask him out first then your chances will be ruined think about it. hes going to think you dont like him so ask him out before its toolate!! good luck and stop playing hard to get.
2006-09-09 19:07:36 · answer #11 · answered by Luckycharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋