been with my girl freind for 5 years about and she broke up with me. she wants to be freinds but i cant handle her with other guys. also she said if it was ment to be then well get back togather. but when i say i dont think we can be friends she was upset and kinda cryed on the phone a bit. she says she misses me and still loves me and feeling for me. i feel the same way. so what do i do be freinds? or call it quits shes also commin over to see me sunday cuz she misses me. shold i change my mine and tell her to not and let her go? or what help any one plz!!
2006-09-09 11:41:49 · 6 answers · asked by soo_sick_of_lovesongs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, what is with you? They are all the same. What did you expect? And now she wants to be a friend, that she can cry to you when someone else leave her. Come one, be a man. She is not last girl on the planet. You will be a couple days in bad, but after that every day you will be better and better. But try to not meet her. Now you are weak, and she can control you. After a couple weeks you will be looking for new girl. And remember,her pussy is not made of gold.
2006-09-09 11:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by gorann123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll give you the same advice I gave my son when his gf of 5 years broke up with him: "Even if she is the right person for you, If you not the right person for her, it will never work in the long run"
They saw each other occasionally for a while, as friends, but that doesn't work in the long run. Especially if she starts seeing other people.
No one can tell you if you would be better off not seeing her, or seeing her only as a friend, but if your going to see her do it outside of your house, like at a gym, bowling alley, etc. so there are no mixed signals from her that could keep your hopes falsely alive.
2006-09-09 18:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she wants to see other people BUT is keeping yopu on 'the back burner' just in case she doesn't find anything 'better". Do yourself and her a favor and take a break from each other. Make sure YOUR dating to and not just giver her the chance while you sit home brokenhearted!! Good Luck!!
2006-09-09 18:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a very strange situation. Maybe she's trying to make you jealous so you'll be more committed to her? If you really want to stay close with her accept her friendship.
Good Luck
2006-09-09 18:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by Marsh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a clean break you are only causing yourself more pain. Move on and find new love.
She is hanging on when she doesn't love you and it isn't fair to you.
You can't move on with her in your life, simply as that. Not one of those we can still be friends things.
2006-09-09 18:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she feels upset and lonely, but that doesn't change how the relationship has failed for her.
she needs to enjoy other men, just feeling sad for you.
sometimes a clean break is best.
2006-09-09 18:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋