i dont know what im supposed 2 do can any1 help me?
2006-09-09 11:10:04 · 14 answers · asked by jman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"unless you ask, the answer is always NO".....hhkk
2006-09-09 11:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre like me, youre the guy that she always came to, and told how bad her boyfriends were, and you sat back and listened, and you were a good friend. I would suppose that you are also smart, and you can follow the logic on this:
Reduce it to an equasion. If you have nothing now, and you try and you still have nothing when youre done, you haven't lost anything. What do you lose? a little pride? The good thing about pride is that we always have plenty to spare. Just lay it out there for her. What's the worst that could happen? She likes you as a friend, and romantic affection is only a little bit removed from friendship. If she tells you no, she is using you as a rock to rest on before she goes on to the other guy. Gently separate yourself from her, and go on with your life, and find someone who likes you for you.
2006-09-09 11:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try sending her a note; say that there's this great movie on at the cinema; and ask her if she'd like to go and see it? Good luck!
2016-03-27 04:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way about a guy i like.Do you want to answer my question? Just click on my pictuere. Anyways, make sure she isn't going out with another guy. then just go up to her and talk to her. After you've got the nerve ask her good luck!
2006-09-09 11:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go up to her and ask...Tell her something creative such as, "I've always liked you since 3rd grade and it is only now that I have the nerve--the courage, to ask you out..."
2006-09-09 11:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out like if you just saw her yesterday and fell in love..Don't put pressure on yourself of what answer she'll give. Get it out of your system, whatever the outcome is.
I'm sure everything will be alright and you will go out with her!
2006-09-09 11:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by QuestionyGirly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what that's like!but what you should do is talk to one of her best friends and tell her your true feelings even if you think she doesn't like you she will just by knowing all these years you liked her.
2006-09-09 11:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone here. i have the same problem, too. But I think you should get to know the girl better and when you think you're ready, ask her out.
Go get 'er!(whips the asker)
2006-09-09 11:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel first how old r u? 2nd jus go hey, wanna hang wif me and my friend(notice jus 1 friend) on friday after school at 5? , bring ______(name of her friend).
3rd if u dont ask her, i believe u dont like her enough
2006-09-09 11:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by angelpinkgal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to stop thinking about it, once you do that, asking her will be easy. Trust me, been there.
2006-09-09 11:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by Merge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she drops something, pick it up. work slowly and slowly till she starts talking to you. Ask her out then.
2006-09-09 11:12:27 · answer #11 · answered by Curious-about-Everything Jeremy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋