Would a guy consider it a perfect date if he didn't have sex?
2006-09-09 11:05:57 · 36 answers · asked by shugabam! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a perfect date is one without sex, i know it sound corny but i prefer to wait and see if the relationship is going somewhere before we get in bed, i feel that when i have sex it's not about gettin off, it's about love, to me it's mor important what is in your head and conecting with your mind and soul is my priority, i already know whats bettween your legs but in the long run it is better to make love and conect on a mind and body level insted of just a physical one...
2006-09-09 11:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by lost 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most likely if they are older than 23 or so. Any younger guys have hormones that make the have an urge to have sex. The man may be respectful and not ask but he will still want it. I would say that there is a 90% chance that it won't be a perfect date if you don't have sex. If it is perfect (without sex), you've probably found the right guy.
2006-09-09 11:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jeffrey S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sex is never a necessity on a date, if the guy thinks so then he is an *** because that shows that he is only after sex. Sometimes sex might even ruin a date, so a perfect date wont need to have sex in it.
2006-09-09 11:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sancho... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It mainly depends if your bother sexual active. I mean if your not, then it is known ahead of time and they wont expect it. So it could lead to a perfect date without sex, since they dont have to think the entire time " am i gonna get some? "
a Perfect date with our GF would include sex most likely.
A perfect first date or begining dating, dosent need to have sex.
2006-09-09 11:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely- my perfect date consisted of a walk along South Street Seaport in NYC, going to the Central Park Zoo, watching a street performer juggle, and a romantic candlelight dinner. Nice kiss at the end, no sex- 7 years later we are married with 2 kids!!! If the person truly means something to you, or even the possibility of meaning something, waiting is the best thing and really makes it incredible when you do have sex!!
2006-09-09 11:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by semihemi08 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just having a fun time would be a perfect date for me
2006-09-09 11:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by rapid57702 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my lexicon, if there is sex involved, it is a lot more than a "date"
so, the perfect date before I was married could not include sex (or it would have been far from perfect)
and the perfect date after my marriage would probably include sex and be a lot more than a "date"
2006-09-09 11:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by enginerd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a perfect date is no sex. One should be married first. I never waited but I am not perfect.
2006-09-09 11:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by piratepete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you probably already know sex is completely over-rated. just having so much fun on a date that you forget what time it is and you end up sitting on a bench somewhere watching the sunrise would be a perfect date. but i've been married 18 years and forget what a date is so maybe its just me.
2006-09-09 11:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by Bob 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A date can be good, even spectacular, wihtout the slightest hint of sex. But, for -perfect- I'd say there would have to be some. Of course, I only speak for myself.
2006-09-09 11:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by juicy_wishun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋