The father of my child and I were highschool sweethearts and we were together for a while and we had a little girl together he started to get abusive and so I had to walk away from everything in the process I lost alot of personal and materialistic things and the only thing I can get back is my car to which I have a title to and the cops will not help me they say I have a better chance to find him on my own but he has a p.o. box and I can't find him I know what city he moved to but that's it I looked him up on some websites but only ever found really old addresses that we lived together at can anyone help me
2006-09-09 11:04:28 · 9 answers · asked by allfckedup23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can hire an attorney to make a P.O. Box inquiry for process service for a child support claim.
If you hold the title, won't motor vehicles give you the address it is registered to?
2006-09-09 11:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a child together, then he is entitled to pay child support. Turn him in, they will track him down for free.
What about his parents, or other family.? Maybe they can help.
You might also look in the web site for finding high school graduates. It list each high school city and year graduated. Maybe he registered there.
Another is if your high school has it's own website. Maybe one of his friends is on there and you can ask them.
What does he do for a living. All professionals have to register their current address, most of that is public record. You can log in and use his SS# or sometimes his last name.
Sometimes you can get a address by using his phone number, even if it is a cell phone.
And if he has your car, then he has to have it registered. It's in your name? And you have the title? Call the DMV and see if he registered it lately. If so, report it as stolen, which by rights it is. He also can't sell that car without your permission, unless he forged your signature, if he did then that is a felony.
You may not want to get him into trouble, but you might have no other option. What he is doing is not right, he should be helping with the support of you daughter and if he has your car, he needs to return or replace it. Good Luck!!
2006-09-09 18:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by PSL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen since this guy is in the military contact the red cross....say that your daughter is ill and its an emergency ( the red cross can find any military personnel with apo addreses)...so give them his name and he will have to contact you....because his bosses are gonna make sure he does....thats what my friend's ex wife did....and he had to contact her...and there was no real emergency the slut wanted money.
2006-09-09 18:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Salvation Army might help you but they will not give you his address. They will have you write a letter and they will send it to him requesting him to contact you. It will be totally up to him to contact you.
Good luck!
2006-09-09 18:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him. go to the state and file for child support - they will find him and you will never need to talk to him. don't put yourself or your daughter in harms way. forget the material stuff - in the end it means nothing!
2006-09-09 18:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by firenice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Maury, sounds like a story for him
2006-09-09 18:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by rab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait by his PO Box, eventually he will come to pick up his mail.
2006-09-09 18:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by Rj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, its gonna cost you. but if you are going after him for child support, the cost may be added to what he owes you.
2006-09-09 18:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file for child support then forget about him.
2006-09-09 18:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋