I am going on a first date with this girl and I am curious what girls actually consider to be romantic or what the perfect guy would say or do etc. Just please give me some tips and advice and what would impress you or make you want to get to know a boy better or even go out on a second date. (the first date is going to be the movies)
2006-09-09 10:54:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1.Make sure you open the doors for her
2.Make sure you leave some time before the movie to play a few video games,the ones where you can challenge one another.
3.Bring enough money to get what she likes. popcorn,bon-bons
4.find a seat where you are not to close to others and make sure you can see the movie without having to strain your neck.
5.Make sure it is amovie that you both agree on.
6.Make sure she is in the seat closest to the wall, it is like you are her protector, cause noone can get to her unless they pass you. 7.Share the popcorn and your hands will touch, when they do touch you will feel the vibe of whether or not you can atleast put your arms around her.
8.DO NOT BE THE FIRST TO LEAVE THE THEATER! wait until almost everyone is out,spend this time talking about things you enjoyed about the movie.
9.When you are walking out of the aisle grab one of her hands in a gesture to help her out of this tight space,if her hands are a little sweaty she likes you and you can continue to hold her hand.
10.Go to an ice cream parlor or someplace you can talk and find out a little more about what interest her. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-09 11:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would suggest not going to the movies because you can not get to know her. It will be quite time you know what I mean. I would suggest you do something that is more personal. Invite her to your house and make dinner for her or better yet you guys can make a meal together.
Nothing is better than being flirtful around her. You get to show her a different side of you that likes to do different things. While making diner it gives you guys a chance to talk and get to know each other better.
After making dinner you guys can sit in front of tv and watch a movie at your place while eatting the food. Something funny that will have you guys laughing and a chance to touch everytime you laugh.
At the end of the date, walk her to her car and don't oouch it give a soft hug and small kiss on the cheek unless she go for the lips. No need to ruch if you really like her.
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-09 11:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're meeting her at her place, bring her some flowers and her mom some flowers so she can put them away before going on the date so they won't be in the way.
Then, be a gentleman hold her hand when you two cross the street, open the doors for her and let her pick the movie. Ask her if she wants refreshments, ask her where she wants to sit.
After the movie, take her to get some coffee or something small since movies cost enough so you two can talk about the movie.
Don't be someone you're not though, keep that in mind.
2006-09-09 10:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A quiet place, preferably candle-lit. Nice music in the background. (slow) Something like breakaway by kelly clarkson etc. I'm a night time person, so i'd prefer it to be in the night time. good conversation subjects, chocolates, a person with good humour. If we're talking daytime, then somewhere like a park, near a stream or on a bridge, having a picnic. Just talking, spending the time together. No interruptions. Plenty of laughing, and then being walked home in the evening. Then again, that's just me, maybe i've been watching too many chick flicks.
2016-03-27 04:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jared, a movie first-date is so great; that's what my husband and I did on our first. I'm sort of old-fashioned; I like it when the guy offers to pay. If you initiated the date, I suggest you plan to pay. If she did, I guess you can still offer to pay. If she prefers to pay her own way, don't be hurt or offended; it's simply her comfort level -- for now. It's not about the money; it's all about being considerate. Generosity (of spirit, of stuff) is a huge turn-on -- but only if it's sincere. If you have ulterior motives (i.e. expecting something sexual in return), then your motives will be recognized as self-serving and ignoble.
Also it's nice to ask if she'd like anything to drink or if she needs to use the lavatory before (and after) the film.
If you put yourself in her place, what to do will be natural, effortless, and authentic.
Oh, and after the movie, of course ask if she liked it, but go beyond that. Ask what she liked about it, what she didn't like, what would've made it better, etc. etc.
Have fun! Hope you see something engaging.
2006-09-09 11:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be friendly and be yourself. Don't try anything dumb on the first date though like putting your arms around her, trying to kiss her before she kisses you, etc. Be a gentleman like holding out the door for her, ask her what she wants to see, definitely BUY the refreshments (you don't want a girl to spend money on her first date). Good luck and have fun!
2006-09-09 10:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately be a gentleman. Walk to the row of seats and then allow her to enter first and sit. Make sure you pay and buy her popcorn/drinks etc. Hold her hand and offer your jacket if she's cold. When you take her home, ask her if you can give her a goodnight kiss.
2006-09-09 10:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very simple...Resturant..sit down style..a movie of my choice and Ice Cream after the movie...Don't forget to open doors and be polite but what ever you do..do not order for her.
She wants to be spoiled but also be acknowledged as being able to make her own choices.
2006-09-09 10:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush things, other than that just open doors for her and be polite and your personality should take care of the rest
2006-09-09 10:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-09 10:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋