my son took a lot of pills from me and was selling them at school and got caught and got expelled what should i do with him since i and my wife have to work everyday
2006-09-09 10:46:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am hoping he has learned something from this, and I truly feel for both of you, what a horrible mess!!
Since he has proven that you can't trust him, get even by hiring a sitter, or check into a school of religion, or, as suggested, boot camp.
You can call a counselor and see what they offer to families in your situation.
Best of luck to you, hope your son wises up and learns some ground rules in and out of school.
2006-09-09 10:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Torri * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds very harsh but i would tell the police,my son is grown up now,but i always said that if he got into a bit of bother i would tell the police,as this is the only way that i can think of to get through to them,when they are young,a good fright from the law may do the trick,i never had to do it thank goodness,but if i had i would talk to the police first myself,to sort of agree on what is the best way to deal with it,as they don't listen to what you have to say for some reason these days,i wish you good luck with this one,and I'm sure he will grow into a fine young man
2006-09-09 17:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by amber_xx66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to say. It really depends on why he is selling pills.
Is he doing it for money? Or is he doing it for noteriety. Drug dealers become popular quickly and if your son is looking for acceptance this is a great way for him to find a group of people who think he's cool.
You need to talk to him. Go on a vacation so you can get away from the town's prying eyes.
Talk to him about the future. Explain how young he is and that his youth is but an instant and eventually he's gonna have to face the rest of his life.
Try to figure out better places where he can make friends. If he's not sporty, encourage him to learn an instrument. Send him to guitar lessons.
Obviously he also needs to be punished. But too strict a punishment and he'll just resent you. He needs to see that, while you are definitely mad and dissapointed, you still love him and support him and only want the best for him. He needs to believe that you actually care.
Good luck.
2006-09-09 17:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by whatispunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would send him to boot camp or a juvinile corrections facility. he needs to learn from his mistakes, and he probably doesn't care that he got kicked out of school. trust me, you will be doing him a favor, and he will get the help he needs.
2006-09-09 17:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by thunderwear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do the crime you should do the time.Let it be a learning experience to him.Work him at home,and let him do a little community service work.Let the judge decide his fate, the next time he will for himself.
2006-09-09 17:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by Nemophilist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boot camp for teens
2006-09-09 18:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Smart Ranger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, you have not raised him right. You should have taught him to be more careful and not get caught. So, the next step will involve the whole family. GOOD BYE MY FRIEND YOU'RE OFF TO THE PEN!
2006-09-09 17:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by ravin_lunatic 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think I would have to turn him in and send him to a jubenile detention center. What he did was illegal.. He stole, and sold something illegally.... it's not going to get any better...
2006-09-09 17:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by ray of sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him to a boot camp to teach him a lesson and go from there
2006-09-09 17:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kinda pills?tell him to save me some...anyways back to your question.....send him to private school or military school..or make him get a job and work
2006-09-09 17:50:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋