2006-09-09 10:35:36 · 19 answers · asked by lady-t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing you can do is to leave or have him leave and try not to blame yourself too much for being so gullible. Six years is a long time but don't waste any more of your life trying to make it work and never knowing what is the truth and what is lies.
Try to make a serene place to come home to and simplify your life as much as possible. Then when you know what you want go out and get it. Don't rush into another relationship but find yourself before going on.
Good luck with your life, try doing some writing in your journal to get your thoughts out and enjoy the rest of your life and forget the last 6 years happened.
2006-09-09 10:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by Soaring Eagle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just leave! You have to analyze the importance of the relationship and what the lies mean. Did someone cheat? Figure out why and see if it is something you can work on. Finding out why he/she couldn't be honest is key. Work from there. My relationship is proof that two people who are truly in love can bounce back from a period of dishonesty. good luck!
2006-09-09 17:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by kimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happened to me. The guy never liked me, and he was using me and taking advantage of me. Needless to say, he was a very good lier. It's a really upseting experience, and so many questions go through your head, but you have to realize that you deserve so much better than him, and he never deserved you in the first place. It's hard but you have to move on. Good luck
2006-09-09 17:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by smuggie71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would probably go absolutely nuts then cry but then pick myself up and become stronger then i have ever been before. hold my head high and realise there is a whole lot out there way better that is waiting for me....and a honest decent guy out there just waiting for a great girl like myself
2006-09-09 17:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by loopy lass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste any more time on it. That includes thinking about it and being resentful about it. You'll only hurt yourself. Be good to yourself and move on. Find someone who deserves your time.
2006-09-09 17:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by Eric H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from your experience and move on and find some guy that will treat and respect you like you deserve to be.
2006-09-09 17:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say but I think I would turn psycho...
2006-09-09 17:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will finish the relationship.It is over.
2006-09-09 17:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit around, cry and mope, and then plot some serious revenge.
2006-09-09 17:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by Slater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on!
2006-09-09 17:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by silver butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋