i cheated on my boyfriend when i was druck and he had thought i had done something but i lied to him and told him no i didnt do anything(but i did) he said he would give me one last chance. how should i earn his trust back what should i do?
2006-09-09 10:34:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see he is married but he has fallen in love with me and doesnt love her anymore, he loves me,and i never cheated on him it was only one night that it happen.
2006-09-09 11:31:12 · update #1
can't.. you are a s l u t. back in the days.. girls like you would be stoned to death. you are nothing but trash in our society.
If he gives you another chance.. he must be a wuss.
24/Los Angeles
"premarital sex creates broken families, broken families creates broken society - a vicious cycle only you can stop."
2006-09-09 10:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, after you admit to him that you lied, cheated and are sorry, and since he wants to give it another chance, then you will have to take a lot of time to earn his trust back. THat could mean not going out with your friends and just primarily focus on your relationship. It will take a lot of time and you will need to have a lot of patience because eventually you could feel frustrated and think "Oh, why can't he just get over it, I said I was sorry and it was ... long ago!" And if so, then keep in mind how betrayed and hurt and sick he must feel that the person (you) that he is most intimate, close and in love with would act out those emotions you share with someone else. It is possible to come back from a blow like this one to your relationship and you should be willing to work so hard on your relationship and it is great that your boyfriend loves you so much that he is willing to do that also. You will have to take as much time that is necessary to prove that you made a mistake and you both can come back from it. Obviously you also have to prove your sincerity and your ability to be faithful from now on.
2006-09-09 11:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by wtrmlnqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say,I have had many women lie to me for less damaging things than what you did. Therapy is a fine commitement to offer. Question is, why did you do it. For whatever the reson, trust is so very hard to recover. I live a simple life and other than a few non- harmful whit lies,I dont do anything to have to lie about. Thats always the best policy. Good Luck....Jim
2006-09-09 10:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by spike3hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he already knows you did or you wouldn't be getting "one more chance" - grow up - stop getting drunk. You obviously don't give a crap or you wouldn't have done it in the first place. I am sick of people like you blaming alcohol. You should just move on b/c you will do it again or he will to get even. Hope this is a lesson learned for you - remember what comes around goes around.
2006-09-09 10:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be rough to get the believe back however all i can say is moves converse louder than phrases. As an alternative of claiming sorry at all times, show him you could have modified. Pay awareness to him more and no longer different guys. Goodluck.
2016-08-09 13:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would totally disown your ***, a few things important in a relationship are trust and loyalty, both of which you violated. If he is willing to give you another chance, then he is more forgiving than I. Don't **** it up.
2006-09-09 10:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by roman_ninja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a good approach to try to win his trust back.
But what you have done(cheated) can be repeated itself, believe me.
For now Don't Drink, true love will heal itself.
2006-09-09 10:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by Doublediamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop getting "druck."
2006-09-09 10:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do go out and get drunk and then sleep with someone else?that was the wrong thing it got you in to trouble.now you're wondering if he is going to forgive you.telling him the truth and asking him to forgive you.and if he doesn't .that's the risk you took.by doing that we have to be responsible for our on action .so pray first and then tell him
2006-09-09 10:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by nicole o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it relatively is going to likely be stressful to get the have confidence back yet all i will say is movements communicate louder than words. particularly of asserting sorry each and all of the time, prepare him you have replaced. pay interest to him extra and not different men. Goodluck.
2016-09-30 12:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋