now im pregnant and have a kid and i donno whos the dad. wat do i do!!! advice please
2006-09-09 10:29:51 · 13 answers · asked by lil mami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
wow. that's not good. u should definitely talk to someone about this. how old r u exactly? u should try to find out who the dad is by calling the police and finding out who the dad is and throwing his sorry butt in jail! that's just wrong for someone to do that. u should get the guys who raped u (if u know who they were) and get some blood tests bc it'd be nice for ur child to know who their father is and why he isn't here with u. i wish u the best of luck! just deal w/things the best way you know how honey! good luck!
2006-09-09 10:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet2forget 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the others,go straight to the police and tell them EVERYTHING!!! Your foster dad should be charged as well for allowing this to happen to you. You should also see about getting some councelling because of all the horror that you went through. Take care of yourself.
2006-09-09 17:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by nobody's hero 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the cops and tell them what is going on. there are tests to find out who the dad is. I blame your case worker for this because they need to check foster parents more careful.
2006-09-09 17:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all know that everything that happened to you was not your fault but please do the right thing and report your foster dad to the police immediatley. You know how painful this experience was for you so please report him to the police so that this doesn't happen to anyone else. May God Bless You and stay strong. Seek God and you will find him.
2006-09-09 17:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by joannaK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You go to the police. You should have done this after the first time. I am not trying to be harsh or anything, but you need social services involved in your situation. You do not need to go through it along...Good luck
2006-09-09 17:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe go 2 the police. i'm sure if u keep the baby u could find out the father sooner or later. Well GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-09-09 17:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by wildcat 4 lyfe! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a sad situation,apparently your case worker had poor judgement in foster parents,they are responsible for this.
2006-09-09 17:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by nanny2 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to the police immedietely. He should be severely punished
2006-09-09 17:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police and report it.
2006-09-09 17:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
report it and consider an abortion so you don't have to deal with looking at the kid and remembering your trauma.
2006-09-11 16:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋