I have a friend who for awhile has been talking about this girl that her likes and i met her the other day. Since then this girl and i have been txting and talking a fair bit and really both like each other and she has said that she doesnt like my other friend the way he does her. So my question is... would it be wrong for me to pursue a relationship with this girl because it would hurt my friend??
I really am not sure what to do... The heart says yes but the brain is holding me back for some reason...
2006-09-09 10:16:17 · 12 answers · asked by dowhatyoucan14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is the unwritten rule. You dont go out with exwives ex girlfriends or people your friends like. If you are ok with not having a friendship with your friend ever again, than pursue it. BUT if it will hurt you to lose your friend...let her go.
2006-09-09 10:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by loladoreen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until the girl tells your friend she doesn't like him. then wait a little while longer (maybe a couple weeks) before pursuing a relationship. that way he can have some time to move on. i don't agree with the rulle "no dating exes" because if someone is your friends ex, then it obvioulsy didn't work out and if they are hurt over it, it's their problem for not keeping their man/woman. if you are no longer involved with someone, you shouldn't be mad if they date a friend. so don't listen to the crap about exes being off limits.
2006-09-09 17:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by thunderwear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend about it and see how he feels,tell her how you feel about it. If it comes to the point that he asks you to choose between him and her, then he's not being an understanding friend. But remember that a friend is always more important than some girl, so when making your choice remember who's been there the longest.
2006-09-09 17:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the girl tell your friend that she really isnt interested, i know it may be hard to do, but it would hurt your friend less than to see her making out with another guy. After she tells him, just wait a while before hooking up so as to not raise too much suspicion.
2006-09-09 17:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by RB1124 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should first talk to your friend. Try to have him fall for some one else. But don't make it to obvious, then once he is completely off of this girl, i guess you can make your move.
but if i did that to my friend, i would feel guilty, i actually had a crush on the same guy she did. i had to wait a year, but she eventaully got off of him, and now we're together.
2006-09-09 17:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Answer Givererer. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's the other way around. You love your friend so your heart is saying no. You like the chick so your mind is saying yes.
2006-09-09 17:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kids ask far too many of these questions. Do you actually learn anything in school that counts other than this drivel? Rhetorical.
2006-09-09 17:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
silly boy, trix are for rabbits, go to school and learn about friends and girls, not here on the internet
2006-09-09 17:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend about this, if you feel that it wouldn't hurt your friendship go for it
2006-09-09 17:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sick and tired answering this kind of question...
why can't you decide on your own without asking any opinion..
you are growing up....
if you know how to love...
i think you know how to decide....
2006-09-09 17:26:44 · answer #10 · answered by nakitamaganda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋