2006-09-09 10:12:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Get a pet, especially a dog.
2. Learn to play a musical instrument -- nobody shoots the piano player.
3. Volunteer -- you've got to see strangers and talk to them to get out of this rut.
4. Spend time at the health club -- so you'll look and be fit as well as be aroung people each day.
2006-09-09 10:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a loner is not that bad. If you are lonely get out. Go meet new people. You could join a health club, church, go see a movie, anything that would help you out. Nobody is going to do it for you except yourself. Life is to short to be lonely out there.
2006-09-09 17:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by leyte6519 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same boat as you are. You need to hang in there first of all. There were many times I was off work and nothing to do and would go hibernate at home. But I came to the point I have to get out and do something. Opportunities were not going to come to me if I was at home all the time. Go out and do things you like to do. Go to the movies, bowling, just get out of the house and do something that you enjoy and everything will fall into place. Everything happens for a reason. And believe me when you least expect it you will find someone and your life will totally change. Just be patient. I had a hard time being patient because I wanted everything right now. But keep you head up and be patient and it will work out for you.
2006-09-09 17:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two Choices:
1. Take lots of cold showers and watch the Spice Channel.
2. Volunteer in your community and meet other people.
2006-09-09 17:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by inpoetry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny your only a loner if you choose to be, go out shopping and speak to assistants to get your confidence up, if its that bad dont turn to eating or video games as it will become a habbit, even come on the net and talk to people but dont put yourself down, youll get there like everyone else does.x
2006-09-09 17:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by kirsty m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a loner and get out and meet some people
2006-09-09 17:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am exactly like you, so i know what its like. I was told to just walk into a place and act like you are the king of the world, with out being to cocky. Have some confidence in yourself. Walk up to someone and say hi. Little things like that. It will help, trust me.
2006-09-09 17:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by RB1124 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an attempt to change and quit wallowing. It won't be easy, but you must start somewhere. Quit classifying yourself this way. All people are social creatures.
2006-09-09 17:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a car and gas to waste just go riding with your radio up, singing to the music, windows down. You mgiht even find a friend... I have before.
2006-09-09 17:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor made 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club for lonely people. i'm the one and only president... just kidding...
get out of your shell, talk to other people, join clubs...
2006-09-09 17:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by misery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋