what would u do if ur boyfriend tells other boy that u and him r jus close friends instead of tellin him dat u guys r goin out? and his excuse was that he didnt want his mother on his case about you.
2006-09-09 10:08:21 · 12 answers · asked by Brianna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you meant to say what you would you *girls* do...but then I might be making faulty assumptions.
Either way, guy or girl, here's the answer to your question.
Believe him. You're just close friends. There's no such thing as a closet boyfriend or closet girlfriend. Either you are or you're not and you BOTH have to decide what you are to each other. This is a type of miscommunication that has broken up many relationships and potential relationships. Good luck.
2006-09-09 10:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sin™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never drop to conclusions without inquiring. Most gay people have problems admitting their homosexuality to their families. It depends on whether the mother already knows if the boys is gay or not, in which case the boy will be clearly not admitting his love to his boyfriend which is unacceptable. However, if the boy is just not ready to break the news shouldn't matter if he truly loves his boy friend. The other boy should work on letting be more confident with his sexuality rather than giving up on him and dumping him.
2006-09-09 10:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by koko k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he can't stand up to his mother and be truthful, what makes you think he'll do the same for you?!?! This guy is a coward and I would tell him that if being with you is so shameful that he has to keep it a secret from his friends and mother, then maybe it's best that you two were not together at all!
2006-09-09 10:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him that that's all we're gonna ever be now.
That's what I think would be a good answer, I'm too insecure to say things like that. Hey, at least I can admit it I guess. I'd probably just get into a fight with him. And expect flowers after.
2006-09-09 10:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by tem_in_a_box 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him if he keeps saying that you 2 are friends, then that will be the next step, just friends.
2006-09-09 10:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's ashamed to be with you ("mommy" sounds like a lame excuse), kick him to the curb. Ask him about it first, though. Honestly ask him why he said it, and confront him about it. Be honest.. and if he's not honest with you in return, he's not worth your time.
2006-09-09 10:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by missesmoo236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you spell "dat" and "gurl" the form you do, you're too youthful as much as now somebody that previous. i'm 20, and it would be merely weird and wonderful and unlawful if certainly one of my acquaintances dated somebody that youthful.
2016-09-30 12:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy is embarrassed by you i say you dump him! move on to someone who deserves to be with you
2006-09-09 10:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave him. i have been in that situation more then just once and it is hurtful. why can't he tell the truth. either he is a shame or he is seeing someone else.
2006-09-09 10:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by sumayyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is not willing to admit that you are his girl so y wate time with him?
2006-09-09 10:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by aaaaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋