first he loved me then he dumped me becuase of silly *** rumers! when someone says they love me for some reason i fall head over heals for him! thats just me, iv new him for only a month and when he said that i was just about teh happiest person in the world! then he dumped me because of rumers, people, plz tell me what just happend was it love or what? plz dont be rude!
2006-09-09 09:54:17 · 13 answers · asked by Christina K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he didn't love you. you deserve better. if he did love you, then he would never have dumped you because of some silly rumors. he would have ignored them.
2006-09-09 09:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Maria18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hate to break it to buy some guys are real jerks. Forget about him. You're a beautiful person there will be another guy for you, don't worry and I hope he'll treat you a lot better. Here is some advise: In this day and age you can't go head over heals for a guy anymore. If he gets that feeling, then he'll do whatever he wants with you and when he's done, your single again. What I'm saying is don't leave your heart on the table for him to mess with. Only open up to someone who you really can trust, someone who will treat you they way you want to be treated. Be a little bit more selective about who you pick as a boyfriend, not just the next "cute" guy, okay? By the way, people only spread rumors if they are jelous of you wather it be your beauty, brain or class rep. I hope the best of worlds for you. Hey, if you want to talk, e-mail me. acidicrage2006@yahoo.com
2006-09-09 10:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 22:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by biesecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with 57 chevvy. It's probably just infatuation. C'mon gal! This guy dumped you cus of some silly rumours dat someone spread! You don't want a guy who doesn't trust you. It'd be tough but u gotta move on. I'm sure u'll find someone tons better who'd say "I love you" to u all the time.
I wasn't rude, was I?
2006-09-09 10:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep breath my dear. You were together a month (?) which is a bit soon for seriousness, though I know a month can feel like forever. If he dumped you over rumors, then he is weak and you don't want him. Sometimes men say what they think you want to hear, or what they think will benefit them. I know it is really hard, but you need to try to take things slow in a relationship. Good things take time for most of us. Surround yourself with good friends and you will always come out on top!
2006-09-09 10:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by MadeaQueenOfScotts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me the guys your falling for really arn't the type of guys for you. If they loved you they shouldn't of just dumped you over rumors. Instead they should of asked you about these rumors instead of jumping off the deep in... take some time to get to know some one before you fall for them I used to be the same way ane all it was, was major heart aches for me.
2006-09-09 10:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Makia R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sweetie
Sorry about what happened. Sometimes men are real jerks. They size us up way before they even talk to us. And maybe, just maybe he saw your eagerness to be loved or needed. Then he saw that as a way to get what he wanted. Then the rumors or Alleged rumors was his way out. Men are starting to get very crafty in the ways they attempt to get to our special spots. SO Women let wise up, and make it tuff for them so they know just how precious it is to us. Again sorry sweetie, but it wasn't love.Use this as a lesson learned. Don't hate the next one just be wiser.
2006-09-09 10:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by Patricia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems he probably told you that b/c that's what he thought you wanted to hear, and, you did. You say every time...You should know that you weren't in love every time. It's great to be loved, that's why you love to hear it. Take your time, make him take his time. At some point in time stay away for some time. A friend told a long time ago, "Distance makes the heart grow fonder". I add, "and if it doesn't, the loves not there"
2006-09-09 10:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on...you know this one. NO it was not. You dont run from someone you "LOVE" over rumors. Haven't you ever heard the song "When a man loves a woman" It says it all.
2006-09-09 10:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to figure out who started the rumer and have a talk to them about it see if you can get them to talk to your x
2006-09-09 09:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by aimee R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋