we've been going together for like.. a month. and we're still in highschool. he wants to have sex but i told him to wait. the other night we were getting into it but i told him to stop because i was overwhelmed and my senses came to me. he got really mad and stormed out of my house. now he won't answer my phone calls or anything. i want to dump him but i don't know if this is what a typical guy would do. i need help, bad. i already posted this but i need more answers.. i seriously don't know what to do. do i confront him at work? should i let him keep on ignoring me?
2006-09-09 09:51:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you give into him you will regret it so dump him.
2006-09-09 09:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Contesta 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like all he wanted was to get in your pants. There are a lot of other guys out there that will be attracted to you for who you are not what you give them. I think you need to move on. After only dating a month and you are still in high school you made the right choice the last thing you want is to be known as an easy score. The typical guy would understand and respect your feelings. Don't try to contact him at all or he will think you are ready to have sex with him. Kick him to the curb and let him know so you can say that you broke it off as he was an insensitive a-- hole.
2006-09-09 17:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by install3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ever ever confront a man at work.If you listen to one peice of advice let it be that.Also a real man.A decent man would not of gotten mad he is a user.He is showing his true colors and my advice to you is this consider him dumped.Instead of thinking he is ignoring you .You Shine him girl.I mean ignore him in every possible way and you start flirting with guys at school that you think are cute.He did you a favor. He showed you his colors before you gave him the goods.He majorly disrespected you.Wait he will probly confront you. Men hate to be ignored but be patient it may take a week.Regardless dont take him back .There is no excuse for what he did he is a horny loser.Just be as pretty as you can and smile alot even if it feels fake it attracts men like bees to honey.I read jokes and think about them throughout the day so i will be laughing to myself and have a genuine smile on.Girl you will be so much better off without him.Best wishes
2006-09-09 17:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about him, you did the right thing. Think about if you guys did do it together, you might have gotten pregnant and your life would get so very hard. I think you should dump him, and look for the next best guy. If ur in high school, focus on your work, your true love will come to you when the time comes. No, this isn't a typical guy thing. Someone who really loves you would respect you not wanting to do it, if you didn't want you to do it. He wouldn't get pissed and stop talking to you. Yea, go dump him.
2006-09-09 17:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by nichellecomicbookgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have sex in the mind, that is true, but it also doesn't mean that they have no feelings. He was just caught in the moment and got carried away.
You did the right thing and said no because you were not ready. He should have the patience to wait for you.
What should you do? Do not embarrass him by talking about it, just pretend that things are normal and continue to talk to him about other things until he regains his confidence. It is important that you make it clear to him where you stand. If he ignores you, then just move forward.
2006-09-09 18:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not ready and that you should wait till u are married before having sex and if don't like that, move on. He is just trying to have sex with you or he would have acted different when you told him no. Go out and find someone that will treat you right and go from there. You do not need that loser.
2006-09-09 17:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him keep ignoring you. Why should you care? Apparently this chuckle-head has no class or any idea about how a man should act. He must still need to grow up. So you should forget about him seeing as how he threw a tantrum when you drew the line. (which you had every right to do and he should have respected that).
In short....Get a new boyfriend.
2006-09-09 16:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by Emporer_Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, he showed himself for the type of guy he is. There are pleanty of guys that arent like that and would respect your decision. I have tons of guy friends who have been with their girlfriends for 2-4 years and still havent had sex because they respect what their girlfriends want, and these are people in their early 20's too.
2006-09-09 16:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by CommonRider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the insensitive horny cad, and find a guy who can control himself, his hormones and his temper. Yes, every guy wants to have as much sex as possible, no you dont have to put up with that kind of behavior.
2006-09-09 16:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP Him, his sole purpose is to satisfy his needs.
He 'dumped' you right(stomed out of the house).
Well, if you are not ready, he should be patient.
Men are physical, that is normal but they are also sensitive and understanding.
He is not. Let him grow up.
For now DUMP HIM.
2006-09-09 17:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by Doublediamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Randy V is competely right! What a great guy!
See, great guys, they're hard to find, and when you do, and you will, he won't make you feel wacky! That's what crazy feels like.
2006-09-09 17:15:30 · answer #11 · answered by miamichicana27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋