2006-09-09 09:39:55 · 33 answers · asked by Scorpion 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Congratulations for you. I think that thats a great choice. Me to. : )
2006-09-09 09:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm happy for you that you choose to do your own thing. I think sex is not supposed to be a toy to play with and it's disrespectful (to yourself and the other person) to use another person as a masturbatory toy and never have a relationship with that person.
I'm just hoping that you're not a Mormon or a member of some other religion that forces the idea that sex is only for marriage.
If it's a personal choice, good for you, but frankly not all partners fit together well so if you're expecting an amazing time of your honeymoon, think again. You could be pleasantly or un-pleasantly surprised with a woman who might be too big or too small for your penis. And the first time men often finish too fast, so the pleasure quotient might not be present for a long time. I suggest that you get some books on the subject before your honeymoon, so there is some pleasure present.
I wish that socially it wasn't a bad thing to ask a man for his penis' dimensions before I get too involved with him. I'd know if it was going to be a possibility or not. And I loathe men who brag about size, that is the type of guy I wouldn't even kiss.
I'm glad that you're not using women just to get your rocks off. I respect that.
Peace.
2006-09-09 09:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Polly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't date you. I wouldn't marry you (obviously, if I wouldn't date you!). I wouldn't marry someone who I haven't had sex with and don't know if we are sexually compatible. Sexuality is very important in a relationship, even if of course it's not the most important thing.
Why do you want to remain a virgin until your wedding? Aren't you afraid that you're going to build up some tension? I mean, I think it's even more difficult for a man than for a girl (it's biological).
Anyway. Why do you tell us that? If you're asking the question, is it because you need approval? I'm just asking. Anyway. Hope you're happy, whatever you decide to do. I just don't understand how deciding to remain a virgin can make people more happy. Having a sexuality doesn't mean being promiscuous and irresponsible, does it? Sex is one of the few free activities that humans can do (ok, condoms cost a bit of money, but it's nothing compared to other things that we are "pushed" to buy).
2006-09-09 10:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Offkey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well each to their own but personally I think it is not such a good idea. Would you buy a car without first taking it out for a test drive? What happens if you aren't compatible in the bedroom situation, there is going to be two very disappointed people who will end up either adding to the divorce statistics or living a very frustrating and unhappy life together. I think this could also be a factor to the rise in people cheating on their partners.
Good luck and I hope the way you think works out for the best for you and all concerned.
2006-09-09 09:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great decision.
I don't know if you are a Christian or not which has made you decide this, however, if everyone waited until they were married to have sexual relations, can you imagine what effect this would have on society?
2006-09-09 09:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait to long to get married i'm 45 ans still single
2006-09-09 10:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by I'm crazy 4 God 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, dear, people who are saving themselves do not go around broadcasting it to the world. You are most definitely not a virgin, and if you are, it's because you are 11.
2006-09-09 17:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by sparkleandme4yrs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that's great! But me I would want to test the goods before I buy them!
2006-09-12 03:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by Pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its entirely your decision, I have no feelings on the matter. Why should you care what others think? But I bet you're a Christian.
2006-09-09 09:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by sarkyastic31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very good idea
all the more excitement for your wedding night, especially if you can marry a virgin.
at least you won't give your wife the clap or hiv
2006-09-11 19:03:48 · answer #10 · answered by watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are going to be a bumbling nut on your wedding nite. Guys are expected to know something about sex...what in the world are you saving it for...do you really think you are so holy? Perhaps you could stand back and re-examine your position.. makes no sense to me, what so ever. I would certainly hate to be the woman who has to deal with your holier than thou attitude. Good luck
2006-09-09 09:46:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋