Would you stay in a long-distance relationship if:
1. You had a past as kids.
2. It's been mostly an online thing since you got back in touch.
3. He expects you to do all the sacrifices, travelling, calling, emailing.
4. He puts rules on you without ever bothering to consider seeing you.
5. He is very sweet but too possessive even from miles apart!
6. All things set aside, there's no chance that you will be together for at least the next 2 years.
a. Would you stay?
b. Or get out risking to lose what you had?
c. Or would you get out by reconsidering the relationship when a meeting is possible?
2006-09-09 09:36:16 · 11 answers · asked by PrettyPinky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationships are too much of a pain to even bother with.
2006-09-09 09:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to go with option C. this guy seems to be as you said possessive and when he is far away that kind of makes no sense. also if this guy makes you do all of the traveling then their is something wrong with this picture. why can't he come see you? is he to good for that? and whats with the whole "at least for the next two years" thing? why do you want to wait that long?
don't get me wrong if you truly like this guy then stay with him but only if that is truly what you want and what works but I'm just wondering what is your history and why is this guy so important.
2006-09-09 09:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by Makdaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would do a b/c i wouldnt wanna be with anyone i cant ever see and i wouldnt wanna do all the traveling....i would make him do that to see if he really cares about me or at least take turns doing it. And i would risk losing what i had because u basically have nothing with him if u never see him and nobody wants a possesive guy....that is no fun at all because i had one and i dumped him b/c he drove me nuts. there are better people out there....so keep on lookin and move on without him.
2006-09-09 09:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get out. I do not like long distance relationship. It is too much for me, I would want a relationship and I will want to display my affection for my girlfriend personally.
2006-09-09 09:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out he wants you to do all the work and he is putting rules on you?forget that.Thats just a hassle.
2006-09-09 09:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now...live your life and MAYBE reconsider later if your heart is still in it, but no guarantees.
2006-09-09 09:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in one myself i gotta tell you.... its up to you, it requires lots of sacrificy, hardcore trusting, and you'll have to hold for those 2 years, so... if you think you'd take not going out with anyone and being REALLY honest and trustfully you might go for it
2006-09-09 09:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by Citrus Noir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, why would you stay when all of these controling things are going on NOW and you aren't physically together? Leave the guy!
2006-09-09 09:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by sweet serinity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT this has huge red warning lights all over it stay safe and stay well away
2006-09-09 09:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by irenee g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out, there are plenty of guys in "(where ever you live)". go find and date on of them.
2006-09-09 09:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by chris1979pt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋