after 2months of dating him,he just told me that he smokes and he a bi-sexual.wat shd i do cuz i really do love him and i think smoking is nasty and bi is just smthin else,i cant tell him that i dontlike it cuz it'll hurt him even though he hurt me too.he has a little temper but hes very emotional too cuz hes had a lot of relationships that didnt work out for him and i really dont know what hes going to do to him self if i say smthing,please what should i do?im 16 and hes 17
2006-09-09 09:32:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At your age, you need to be more careful who you go out with. You are too young to play "social worker" and try to change some guy you've only known for 2 months.
Bisexual??? Please. That's the last thing you need in your life. Just make him disappear. There are SO many other things you can do with your life, whether you have a boyfriend or not. Think.
2006-09-09 09:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 do what's right 4 you! he probably hasn't had a decent relationship cuz it sounds like he's not honest! u shouldn't worry about his feelings more than your own. in 2 more months he may have another surprise 4 u 2! he's not going 2 be faithful cuz he likes men 2 and that's puttin u at risk. u should break it off with him!
2006-09-09 09:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to get Aids?He sounds also like he can be emotional and be freaked out. Tell him you can only be freinds then back away and avoid him like the plague.What he does to himself is not your fault he chose to smoke and be bisexual.You have no choice no matter how strong your feelings are its just going to lead to misery.
2006-09-09 09:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for starters, 2 mos. isn`t a long time. obviously, you just found out new stuff about him. what else hasn`t he told you. hey, if there is stuff now that you don`t like about him, what about down the road? you`ll never be happy, trust me it happened to me. there`s other fish in the sea. and you`re still young. shop around for now. good luck, hope this helped.
2006-09-09 09:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by broncobillie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's bi-sexual!!! You can't compete with another man. Leave him alone. I'm sure men are his preference. And at least he was honest with you. You might love him, but love yourself first because he is probably telling you that so he can be with you and other men.
2006-09-09 09:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aint no he smoke and he been with you for 2 months he aint neva had to have a cigarette people that smoke r addicted so u lying if you expect me to believe you didnt no he smoke u didnt smell the cigarettes and he 17 and smoking who selling him cigarettes thats illegal . REPORTED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-09 09:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by monique mccormick johnson 16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and help him quit smoking and be there for him but try to make him understand that you dont like smoking and if he really loves you he should try and quit
2006-09-09 09:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Matthew D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him or at least make him straight by you.
and you should smoke with him also.
2006-09-09 09:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl if your realy love youll stay with him...but don't let people tell u ****..but in other case he might leave u for another guy..but follow your heart
2006-09-09 09:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by Styleish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start smoking and get a girl, that should turn him on
2006-09-09 09:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋