I'm not ugly. But what do you say to a woman who's had every compliment in the world already. Yet you want her to know your interested. A lot of women here in florida have a good way of being rude too. I guess I hate rejection too.
2006-09-09 09:30:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's an alternative: don't only go up to women who have had every compliment in the world. Look for one who is pretty but shy, becaue though she's not desperate, guys usually won't talk to her much(story of my life) because she's not b****y and outgoing like the real popular girls. I would really like even a little compliment...I try pretty hard and still can't really get any. AND I'M NOT UGLY IF THAT'S WHAT YOU ARE THINKING lol....
2006-09-09 09:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by aerie anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this:
situation A: she is with her friends.
Do NOT walk up and talk directly HER ... especially if she is
the most popular one. If you know one of her friends, wave hello,
and SMILE, maybe say "hi" to the friend, then walk by, SMILING.
Situation B: she is alone.
Walk by, and SMILE. Suppose she's standing there fiddling her books. You could toss off a casual remark about whatever SHE is paying attention to... e.g. " bookworm, eh? ". Then SMILE.. and keep walking by.
If there's nothing obviously on her mind, option B is this:
compliment her choice of clothing (NOT her general looks). Make it sincere but casual, like "hm. nice jacket!". Then SMILE, and keep walking.
Don't ask her any questions, or start talking about anything that would be awkward for either of you. Just echo what she's possibly thinking.. then SMILE.
If she starts replying, you could stop briefly - but don't stand facing her. Stand sorta beside her, you both looking in the same direction. Don't stay long... just say "well, I gotta get going - nice talking to you - see you around" after a minute -and get going. Give yourself a planned exit.
The beauty of this plan is you don't have to DO anything. You don't have to SAY anything. You just have to SMILE... and avoid doing awkward things, which you want to avoid anyway!
Doing this a few times will break the ice and provide chances for more convo, without being awkward. And, that's the hardest part.
2006-09-09 16:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mark P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skip the compliment. Your offer to take her out is compliment enough. Just ask her to dinner or on some other sort of date and dont be too disappointed if she says no. You are no worse off than you are now.
2006-09-09 16:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually start with an insult. If all they hear are compliments you will not stand out. If you walk up and tell her that her shoes are the uglyist thing you have ever seen on a foot then she will remember you.
2006-09-09 16:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang out with her, you know be her friend, be nice to her, funny and if you are what you say you are, you'd probably win her heart by just saying i love you, sounds cheesy. but it worked on me! lol!!!
good luck! =)
2006-09-09 16:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Christina K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open up by saying; "yeah, I make a lot of money"
2006-09-09 16:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋