2006-09-09 09:17:10 · 24 answers · asked by Take it or Leave it 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My parents have said they would be okay with it but we are christians and the bible says it is wrong
(so very confused)
2006-09-09 09:24:35 · update #1
If you have doubts that you are gay then your not gay. Besides
why should you care what anyone in here says to you. You have
to live your own life no one is going to live it for you. be your self and be happy. thats all that really matters in this world. Good luck.
2006-09-09 10:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Robert G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know if U're gay. If U're having thoughts, U probably R-most
likely. The strain of it all is, will others be acceptable of it?
That's U're call. Befriend someone U know that is gay, & talk
2 them seriously about it. I'm sure that they have been through
the same curiosities that U U're self is going through now. I know
it's a rough road 2 travel down,, but take U're time, ask a lot of
questions 2 someone U can trust. Good Luck 2 U & I hope U
find what U R looking 4.
Smooches, Milkshake
2006-09-09 16:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by MILKSHAKE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question then you probably are. Maybe you are just a little curious. I know that when boys go through puberty and their hormones are raging, they can experience what you are feeling right now. In fact, I know allot of boys who experimented with the same sex very young in life. I don't know your age though. You should act on it and see how you feel. Maybe you maybe you arnt, it least it is easier for people to come out of the closet then it used to be. Don't end up like me, married with kids and stuck.
2006-09-10 01:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by Prissy_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you look at movies, posters, and calendars, are you more turned on by men than women? When you make friends, would you prefer to hang out and talk with men or women? Try hanging out with both groups (gays and straights). Which one do you feel more comfortable in? If you're uncomfortable, or you have a religious issue with it, or if there's something not quite right feeling about it? Then you need to be honest with yourself and not try so hard. When you find the right one (male or female) you'll be comfortable, feel safe, and there'll be no question.
2006-09-09 16:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by hennahair72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people have attarctions to the same sex sometimes. I've known people that thought they were gay, even went on this big "Hey look at me I'm gay!" kick, but then when the ACTUALLY TRIED IT they discovered they didn't really like it.
If you don't like it, you're not.
2006-09-09 16:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Dang Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey we kinda have the same problem and my dad said he would try to be okay with it but i know it would really hurt my mum. We're christian and i'm scared that i am sometimes but i'm not sure. I guess we just have to pray against it.
2006-09-09 16:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bible also says not to judge others, and if you are gay then you would be attracted to the same sex.
2006-09-09 16:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gay if you are only turned on by members of the same sex. (ie thinking about them, is arousing) You are bisexual if you are turned on by either. You are hetero if you are only turned on by members of the opposite sex. It shouldn't be too hard to know which category you fall into so long as you are honest with yourself.
2006-09-09 16:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by greeneyedprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the thought of the Penis gets you going, you are gay ( if you are a dude) and vice versa.
2006-09-09 16:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out this site.
http://www.am-i-gay.com/
Generally, if you become sexually AND emotionally attracted to men, then you are probably gay. However, this is not ALWAYS the case.
2006-09-09 16:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Jaydt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋