would you risk everything you have, even your relationship for someone you hardly now? even if they appear to be all you have been looking for?
2006-09-09 09:14:36 · 32 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's hard to say....I've known people that did it and regretted it & I've know people that did it and were better for it....Trust your heart....no one on here knows what it's like to be you.
2006-09-09 09:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by green eyed girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES..BUT..Things like this have to be done very carefully. It's your life. YOU make the all the final decisions. But you also have to remember that you're in a committed relationship already. How you feel for your current mate will determine alot of your next steps. You have a right to be happy. So maybe this new stranger is the ONE? Maybe not? Life is full of risks, where we have to make a decision to take them or leave them. And not leave a lot of pain behind us in the process. A question like this can't be answered in detail without knowing about all the feelings involved with you, your current mate, and the new so called "dream come true" person. Whatever you do....don't do it fast.
2006-09-09 09:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by skoosh_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if u r in a relationship and u want to be with someone else, u need to break it off with the current person before u even touch someone else!! That is so unfair to the one u r with now. Also, if u r so worried about hurting the current person, then maybe that is who u should be with. And take it from me, getting serious with someone u hardly know too soon is not a good thing. I got married after KNOWING my hubby 1 month and it has been hell ever since. be careful and make sure u know what u r doing.
2006-09-09 09:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by sbarne8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That totally depended where you were in the relationship. If you are married to this person, no way! If you have dated a long time and have a connection, maybe not. Maybe you just think this other person is great, and once you get to know them they aren't what you thought. There isn't enough information about the existing relationship to answer this question. I think it would also depend on where you are in your life, how old you are, etc.
2006-09-09 09:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by cyunos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well before you risk everything just go on a date with this person. see if you have things in common and if you have a good time, if there's something there go for it and have a blast, but if things don't work out your current BF doesn't ever need to know.
2006-09-09 09:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because I have my universe that surrounds me now and why would I want remotely even think about hurting them.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-09 09:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, would not risk nothing for someone who appears to be all that and a bag of S hit
2006-09-09 09:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-09-09 09:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Yea,,,now that kind of question I like. R U a gambler and do you win is the key to this operation in relations.
2006-09-09 09:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you met your partner she also appeared to be all you have been looking for. You are playing with people's feelings. Watch out that it does not backfire on you.
2006-09-09 09:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you thinking with your brains or with your emotions?
My direct answer to you is no, I wouldn't, because when you are 'in love' you are 'insane' and unable to make rational decisions.
Once you do it, once you make that move, get ready for the consequences. Every action has consequences.
What do YOU want to do?
FP
2006-09-09 09:18:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋