He seemed really cute and nice at first, and I had fun with him in the beginning, but these days, I feel our connection has died.
I find him to be plain, unfun, and his extreme niceness is getting annoying. He is extra quiet around my friends and he never lets himself be noticed. I find myself forgetting that he's there and then wander off with my other friends.
I feel more like hanging around my friends than with him and has even ditched him a couple of times. He doesn't ever say anything about it or accuse me of anything, he just constantly asks me if I am mad at him for something. He seeing me flirting around, and I even ask him if he gets jealous easily, but he just tells me that he knows I have a lot of friends.
I feel like this relationship is going nowhere and it wont work in the long run.
How do I break up with him?
2006-09-09 09:13:33 · 29 answers · asked by sarah c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you shouldn't have gone out with him to begin with. Had you taken the time to get to know him better before you decided to start a relationship with him, you wouldn't be in this situation. People need to take relationships more seriously. But anyway, just tell him how you feel. Be straight forward with it. It will hurt him at first, but he will be glad of it later once he moves on and will respect you more for it too because you didn't mess around and beat around the bush when you told him that you didn't want to date him anymore.
2006-09-09 09:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by cob32187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him that you feel like you really need to concentrate on other things right now, rather than a relationship. You've only been together 3 weeks so it's not like you're going to break his heart into a million pieces. He may be a bit upset, but that 3 weeks was a 'getting to know each other ' period. Now you know him better, and you know he's not for you. Just be gentle and tell him you don't feel ready for a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship right now, and you'd rather be on your own.
2006-09-09 09:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and tell him what's going on! in case you could no longer talk relating to the style you sense in a relationship, no remember if for stable or for undesirable, your relationships are not going to paintings. it rather is going to likely be much less complicated, with any luck, in case you talk over with him till now you circulate so as which you the two comprehend what's going on. it will make issues extra appropriate for you, and it will provide him of project to come to a decision on how he needs to act in the direction of you once you're on the direction. in case you tell him once you get there i will virtually assure you that it rather is going to likely be terrible for the two certainly one of you. Telling him afterwards will probable make it rather undesirable for him with the aid of fact he's conscious the final week replaced right into a lie, and for you considering which you will ought to faux that comprehensive time. with the help of telling him previously you the two have time to emotionally prepare to work out eachother as single people, no longer a pair. you have already made the alternative, there is not any factor in putting it off. do basically no longer text cloth him! Get him on the telephone and tell him precisely the style you sense and if he's mature in any respect he ought to have the flexibility to guard it.
2016-11-07 00:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, we're on two separate paths. Your appears to be a quieter, more peaceful one. Mine is full of adventure and excitement. Let's head off on our own paths...I hope you meet some interesting people on your journey, and possibly a love interest. I'm not that love interest. Have a good life. Write if you get work. Bye.
2006-09-09 09:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gently, of course... :) Don't try and stick it out, though. Leading him on isn't fair, and neither is putting yourself through the torture of another boring date. I'm sure he's a big boy, and you've only been together for three weeks! Do what makes you happy, but be considerate of the feelings of others. Good luck!
2006-09-09 09:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by daniella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Cuz i feel u on that one. I know the feeling when a guy is too nice to a gurl. Sometime its scares u.
2006-09-09 09:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you feel that the relationship is going nowhere and you don't feel the same way about him anymore.
2006-09-09 09:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and tell him what you just wrote, but try to avoid words like nice guy,and crap like that. Just tell him hey I don't hate you or anything, i'm just not that into you.
2006-09-09 09:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by Cactus Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should give hima nother chance. Its only been 3 weeks. Maybe you should ask him why he is so farther away. Maybe he is still in his emotional shell and you you need to coax him out of it. If he still acts this way, then dump him.
2006-09-09 09:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by steve w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him very nicely why you can't be with him. Honesty's best. BS shines like a beautiful smile.
2006-09-09 09:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋