like are they just stupid or do we just have to make it more obvious?
2006-09-09 08:34:32 · 23 answers · asked by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they are so dense, they need it spelled out to them, subtlety does not work with most of them, sometimes you just have to hit them over the head with it
2006-09-09 08:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't read minds, and sometimes the hints are not so obvious as the girl thinks. The guy could be in BIG trouble by misreading a "hint'.
Suppose, for instance, that you wanted him to say something nice about your new blouse, and you turned sexily, and shook your boobs in his face. He thinks you want to have him feel you up, so he does, and you slap the hell out of him.
Well, he took what he thought was a hint, but it was not the one you intended for him to receive. So9 we have to be careful
2006-09-09 08:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you complaining about adult men who're providing you with undesirable interest, or adult men who're failing to do something once you hint that you're in contact? If it truly is the latter, the answer is amazingly straightforward: In in the present day's international, the consequences for being incorrect are basically too severe to threat being incorrect. adult men were FIRED only for telling a coworker that her gown or her hair seems fantastic. next ingredient you know the female is screaming sexual harassment, and the guy is out of work. i have in no way been the sufferer of this, yet I in no way praise a woman at artwork anymore, and if a woman at artwork says something that incorporates any sexual innuendo, I basically sit down there stone confronted and act like I in no way heard it. maximum women persons might want to in no way manage a guy this way, yet we haven't any way of telling which of them are hypersensitive.
2016-11-25 22:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother with games, they're a time waster, so are hints! there are other ways to show how you feel than subtle hinting, and they dont all involve spelling it out! just do what feels right in a given situation, and do it with purpose so its more than an obvious hint, and at the same time has less embarrassment potential than blurting it all out!
2006-09-09 08:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by slyrasher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men aren't women, and that has been the #1 point of contention between the sexes from the beginning. They think they're subtle, and they're not. We think we're obvious, and (to them) we're not. Just.... be more obvious. Remember, he can't read your mind.
2006-09-09 08:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by missesmoo236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you girls just learn to communicate effectively. Do you think we are Batman out there. Say what you want, say what you mean. Follow thru. It couldn't be easier.
The problem is girls prefer stupid games. We don't. Your expectations are unjustified.
2006-09-09 08:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by cannon1977 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i just gave an answer to " woodentop " after reading your answer to her. BUT then looking to your question, i feel the guys out there are heartless & want to come bang to the point. truely emotions have their deep roots & hints here and there have their own charm.
2006-09-10 07:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys want someone to be upfront with them not throw them hints they aren't all that bright so they may not understand what you are hinting to them
2006-09-09 08:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are stupid. It's as easy as this.
But if you ain't stupid in your own way why didn't you notice that we are stupid and talk to us in a way we can understand? Women must be stupid too.
2006-09-09 08:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by ak2005ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it more obvious
2006-09-09 08:35:52 · answer #10 · answered by Gez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋