We have been together 3 months. we live in different towns and barely see or can talk to each other because we are so busy. How can I tell him nicely without hurting him to badly that i think we should split.
2006-09-09 08:34:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want to ignore him by not picking up the phone that is mean
2006-09-09 08:37:19 · update #1
Well it seems to me that you should just one day ask him to meet you some were (maybe over coffee,or lunch). Then you should tell him that you don't think it will work out. And explain to him why. For instance you should explain to him how you two are always busy and really never get to talk. The main thing is you should explain to him that you still want to be friends. Tell him why you still want to be friends so you don't hurt his feelings. Then ask him if he is alright and if he would still be just friends with you. Well i hope this helps :)
2006-09-09 08:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by TYLER HART 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT OVER THE PHONE..... that right there willl hurt him!! and make him obsessed over the fact u broke up with him!
meet him up somewhere and just tell him ur not feeling how u used to feel and u think its better for you and him to see other ppl becuz of the distance and how ur busy.
2006-09-09 08:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by PrettySureItsThis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say im sorry I really like you and hope we can be freinds but living so far apart and not being able to see each other much are not my cup of tea.I have decided it would be best if we parted ways.Be firm yet kind.Chances are he feels the same.
2006-09-09 08:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, just simplycall him up and start by saying that you're relatioship isn't going too well... and then just tell him that you want to take a break (that's the nice way of saying let's break up)... good luck
2006-09-09 08:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain him that is very complicated to maintain this relationship because of the distance...when to persons are together as a couple,they spend a lot of time together doing different activities,talking,laughing and so on..things that you don't do...tell him that it's better to remain just friends...good luck!
2006-09-09 08:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no good way 2 break up wit someone soo i would make it fun and just say u r D.U.M.P.E.D!!!!!!!!!!! lolz but if u really like him then say im srry but i dont think that our relationship is working out and i think we need time apart from each other!!
<33 byezz
2006-09-09 08:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by caitlin j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you just need a break. That you don't want to be mean but it just isn't working out.
2006-09-09 11:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he is more a friend to you than a boyfriend.Ask him if u could still be friends.It always worked for me.Well i wish u good luck.
2006-09-09 08:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lou Zerface- X-]p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that the distance has become a problem and you want to see other people
2006-09-09 08:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat around the bush...just tell him
2006-09-09 08:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Gez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋