alright...she's 17, im 16. she looks at me and stuff...but i dont know if she's doin that as being flirtacious, or if she's just looking at me. we tlk some, but not a lot. what should i do? best answer will be chosen
2006-09-09 08:19:38 · 3 answers · asked by rc_longhorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
maybe...u r misunderstanding her!!!she looks at u does'nt mean she likes u!!!she must b lookin at so many other people the way she looks at u!!!!!so y should u think in that way???4get all this things n njoy life.......distract ur mind in other activities!!!!if u feel she likes u try 2 become friendly with her or just 4get it!!!!it depends on u n ur luck!!!!!don't think she's being flirtatious...she maybe havin this sort of habit of lookin at others...seems like u like this girl....that's y ur so interested in knowin y she looks at u!!!
2006-09-09 08:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by rd22 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lately I have had several people ask me how to tell if the person that they are dating likes them--really likes them. I have also been asked how to work it to get someone interested. Now, the first question sounds like mind-reading, which I have never figured out how to do. The second sounds like manipulation, which I am very much opposed to.
If you have a question for the person that you are dating, ask them. Straight out. Okay, be tactful and do not ask the same question over and over again. If you want to know where the relationship is going, say, "I am not asking for a marriage proposal right now, but I am just wondering where you think this relationship is going?" No ulterior motive and nothing unstated. Just be clear and direct. You will probably get a response that you can trust is real rather than one that you need to decode to figure out what it means. Not to mention that you will probably be wrong with your decoding!
A person will like you if they like you. You cannot make anyone fall in love with you. It doesn't work that way. You are not powerful enough to manipulate anyone else's emotions. Why people fall in love with one person and not another is a great mystery that poets and scientist have been working on for centuries. It just is. It doesn't mean that you are deficit if the person that you want to fall in love with you doesn't. It also doesn't mean that you're the best thing since sliced bread if that person does fall in love. It just is.
So sit back and enjoy the ride. Sometimes good things happen, sometimes bad. Enjoy the good and cope with the bad. And remember to take care of yourself throughout!
2006-09-09 08:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Hánnàh♥ [Hysteria] 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your gut is telling you she likes you then take the chance that she does if it turns out she doesent then play it cool. But i can tell you this girls like a guy with confidence so if you have enough to approach her with then do it. Even if she dosent like you just by your mere approach will prove to her you are the kind of guy she would like to know. So with that being said dont cheat yourself out of something because your afraid to take a risk.
Life is full of risks and no one in this life ever achieved anything without taking one.
2006-09-09 08:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by fryedaddy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋