Some months after a breakup I began talking seriously to this other guy, whom I had known before but never got to know. We had so much in common. He had just gotten out of a particularly bad relationship and made it clear from the get go verbally that he wasn't looking for another relationship. I obliged. But as the weeks moved on, his signals were way different than what was originally said. We kissed a couple of times, talked for hours each night and I began to think that he was changing his mind. He admitted that he was torn between wanting to be with me and thinking it was not best for him and decided once again against the relationship. This happened another time, when I stupidly told him that I thought I loved him. I couldn't understand why he could risk a chance. He made it clear no relationship but the prob now is that he refuses to talk to me...even when he sees me at uni which is every day. I can understand not being with him but I really miss his friendship. What can I do?
2006-09-09
08:17:07
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That is what I also had tons of problem with the he doesn't love or want to be with me bit. Because...he admitted to having feelings and wanting to be with me...at one point and time he admitted to spending a couple of days thinking about it but realised that he was scared...or couldn't handle it.
I had a situation where he was saying one thing and doing a next...then he effectively and totally cut me out of his life. I'm not sure how to adjust.
2006-09-09
08:54:00 ·
update #1