i would really like to be more shy, but i'm like super-outgoing. i think i scare some guys, especially ones i really like, so i would like to be more shy. does anyone have tips on how to go about doing this? i would really help me a lot. mo sarcastic responses please.
2006-09-09 08:11:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just pretend like there is always something wrong with you and people will laugh inside at whatever you say... that outta make you watch yourself a little bit.
2006-09-09 08:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by itslate 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust me, you don't want to be more shy. You are what you are. It is super awesome to be outgoing. You will attract guys who like that and you will have a much healthier relationship than if you try to change your own personality to fit someone elses! If you scare some guys, trust me, you won't be happy with these guys in the long run. Be yourself. Because that's what you are.
Outgoing is beautiful. If someone rejects you for being yourself, they are the loser, not you.
2006-09-09 15:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by galacticsleigh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest taking up deportment and/or personality development courses (like how to act socially) In the Philippines, we have John Robert Powers School that train young socialites for their future role in society (ehem!) funny but true.
If that's not an option, you just have to train yourself, slowly each day as it can't happen overnight. Practice on new acquaintances and think! before opening your mouth. Take it one day at a time and keep trying.
2006-09-09 15:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell yourself at home in front of the mirror that you're an incredibly beautiful person of the female species. You'll gain confidence, I guess.
2006-09-09 15:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...your the first one i've heard ask how to be shy,..lol.
Not sure i can help with that, i guess you just have to act shy. Dont know why you would want to be.
2006-09-09 15:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't try and change yourself. You will find when you get older that an out-going, know what I want in life woman is very attractive to most men.
2006-09-09 15:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like out going girls, you sound perfect :)
2006-09-09 15:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change who you are just be yourself. you will be alot more happier that way
2006-09-09 15:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by jason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think before you talk
2006-09-09 15:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by Logan I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋