Don't you hate it when some women hug you & they do that 'safe hug'. That is- they lean in w/ the bottom halves of their bodies 10 miles away from you so that only their cheeks & the very upper parts of their torso touches you? lol!
Suspiciously, lots of busty women do this....
2006-09-09 08:07:39 · 8 answers · asked by Fonzie T 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
-chandrasanyal-
" I/M A LADY. BUT I WANT MY POINTS AS WELL AS I WILL TELL YOU THAT A GOOD LADY WHOM YOU CAN BE PROUD OF WILL NEVER ALLOW HER LOWER PORTION TO TOUCH JUST FOR CHEAPSAKE, UNLESS SHE KNOWS HIM AND DESIRES HIM. BY THE WAY IF THE WOMAN IS BUSTY, HER LOWER PORTION WILL AUTOMATICALLY BE AWAY FROM THE GUY'S LOWER PORTION BECAUSE OF THE MASSIVE BUSTLINE1 DON'T YOU AGREE?"
No. I disagree. I've hugged my share of busty women & trust me, we were *Very* able to touch lower halves too....
For a hug to work the way *you* described it, her breasts would have to be made of steel.
2006-09-09 08:27:15 · update #1
Mark D-
Thank you. I also thought that was an extreme reaction.
*I've* never yanked a woman into a hug, but if I *did*, it'd be more like an invasion of space or at worst, sexual harrassment.
Not rape in any shape or form.
2006-09-09 12:32:58 · update #2
"Rape"!?!?!....how did you get RAPE from THAT???
Seems that some women are too eager to claim ANY kind of male approach as sexual abuse or rape....it's a world gone mad.
Of course everybody should be respected but I think this guy just feels a little insulted that some women hold themselves away...as if touching waists will cause him to do something mad...I understand what he means....
2006-09-09 12:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mark D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I/M A LADY. BUT I WANT MY POINTS AS WELL AS I WILL TELL YOU THAT A GOOD LADY WHOM YOU CAN BE PROUD OF WILL NEVER ALLOW HER LOWER PORTION TO TOUCH JUST FOR CHEAPSAKE, UNLESS SHE KNOWS HIM AND DESIRES HIM. BY THE WAY IF THE WOMAN IS BUSTY, HER LOWER PORTION WILL AUTOMATICALLY BE AWAY FROM THE GUY'S LOWER PORTION BECAUSE OF THE MASSIVE BUSTLINE1 DON'T YOU AGREE?
2006-09-09 15:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by chandrasanyal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can hate this kind of hug all you want, if I don't feel I want to touch your lower body I ain't going to! Pushing a person to do what they don't want to do is still a version of rape. Learn to respect other people's boundaries.
Peace.
2006-09-09 16:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Polly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a hugger, I hug any way I see fit, I am not so busty, so my little body gets right up there and snuggles.
2006-09-12 07:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, a lady friend who I haven't seen in some years tried that, I put my arm around her waist and pulled her in tight and hugged her. She just laughed. We chit-chatted and she went away happy and I walked away with an erection. Story of my life.
2006-09-09 15:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sick Puppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats when u swipe those high heels out from underneath her,while shes leanin in. Wont strike that pose no'mo!
2006-09-09 16:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Skeeter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I call it the "holy hug" .....seems very superficial to me. But then again, not everyone is comfortable with the full contact hug
2006-09-09 16:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you rather they did? Dry Hump you?
2006-09-09 15:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by n2mustaches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋