I'm 16. One of my good friends, is acting differently around me. I came back to school. She starts doing things differently. First day starts resting her arm on my knee. Steals my hat all the time, all of a sudden sits next to me all the time, and hugged me. Riped a hole in one of my shirts, asks for my jewerly once, draws pictures for me. but the dilema see does hug some other guys.It is probably friendly. Also, she was doing some of this before. Played with my jewerly before, stole my hat on occasion but every chance she gets now she says hi or touches me.
im just trying to figure out whether she is being deeply friendly or likes me
also do ask her and risk the friendship if she says no
and i got no idea how to start asking her about this
2006-09-09 08:06:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
shes not lesbian or bi
2006-09-09 08:13:21 · update #1
shes been doing it to me more often
and shes not picking on me
its a joking stealing my hat
or its flirting
2006-09-09 08:22:36 · update #2
Yes, she likes you.....she's flirting. The question is...do you like her? Like that? If so....just start flirting back. 2 of my friends started that flirting game 2 years ago (of course, they are older and have different methods of flirting) but now they are married with 2 kids.
2006-09-09 08:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by echickaboo99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physical contact (resting arm on knee, hugs) is usually the first sign that a girl likes you. But if she was doing all this before, it's really hard to tell if she's being friendly or flirting. Your best bet is to ask her. Approach her one day and say "Hey, when you
get a chance, we need to talk about some things. Nothing serious, but I need to know something." When you get her alone, just ask her "Okay, I think you're cool and maybe a little cute and all but What's up with you? Why you keep stealing my hat, asking for my jewelry, and riping holes in my shirt?"
To me, it sounds like theres a small chance that she might like you but doesn't want to tell you so she's trying to get your attention by deliberately annoying you, taking your things, and even touching you. If you like her too, then maybe you should try touching her back, making eye contact and smiling at her more. She'll get the hint, and maybe start being a little nicer to you.
2006-09-09 15:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was just going to say that she likes you, when you mentioned she acts similarly with other guys. She might just be a flirt to everyone. The only way you would know for sure is to ask her.
Let me ask you a question: would you rather ask her about her feelings and find out the answer or would you rather keep your mouth shut and never know for sure?
I, personally, would ask if I liked her a lot. And if it makes you feel better, since she's your good friend, I'm sure you can ask and still retain your friendship if it doesn't go the way you planned. Even the act of asking can be totally casual--it doesn't have to be this serious conversation. Try saying something like, "Hey, I'm curious--do you like me?" And if she answers the negative, you can both laugh about it, like "Ha ha! You're such a big flirt, it's hard to tell! I'm glad you don't have a crush on me because I'm a heartbreaker" or something along those lines. Anyway, I know my lines may be terrible, but you make up your own. You get the drift >_<
2006-09-09 15:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by calamityjanedoe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you feel more for her than just friendship then instead of asking her about it then just start giving the same attention back. She may be doing a lot of the friendly stuff with the other friends so that it doesn't look so obvious with you. She may also be afraid of rejection and is just trying to be subtle about it and see if you take the hint. Stay friends but just be "closer friends" than the rest of you guys are. Without anything being said things will either fall into place or just stay the same. Good luck to you and please be careful if you decide to be intimate with anyone, use protection!!!
2006-09-09 15:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to your friend and say i have noticed alot of different changes in your behavior towards me all the touching and stuff makes me feel unfortable . i was wondering if you are having feelsing for me or if you just like me as a friend?if she answers yes to the having feelings strong feelsing question tell her hey look i don't mind you being a lesbian but i am not that way ..
2006-09-09 15:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah its flirting If shes jailbait watch out You dont want her Dad gunning after you.
2006-09-09 15:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably does like you and even if she doesnt it sounds like you and her are good friends and asking shouldnt hurt anything. but on the subject of how to ask her... i have no advice
2006-09-09 15:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by chirofan01 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should ask her.really!it's no need 2 be afraid 2 .and if she's a real friend she won't get very upset if u ask her that.
2006-09-09 15:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by dee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give it sometime....if she really likes u...u'l get da hints...
she will treat u differently from other guys...she will make u feel special...
if she likes u...ur gonna get 2 know it..just be calm...
2006-09-09 15:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋