My fiance just told me on our 1st love anniversary that it was me who made him frank n physical in our relation.he told me that he respected me a lot but one day i discussed about an article on masturbation with him n that led him to become totally frank n physical with me.i didnt like what he said at all.i discuss with him every thing so one day i discussed that article on masturbation.i dont think he should say such things to me.im feeling degraded.am i right?
2006-09-09 07:51:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he is still your fiance?
2006-09-09 10:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda~Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You brought up the question - you should have been prepared for an answer you didn't want to hear, as you said it was OK to be "frank" about it. You didn't really say what he said, so its difficult to get more specific about an answer for your question. BTW: 100% of men have tried it, and a very large percentage of women also do it, and it is considered normal... so what upset you exactly?
2006-09-09 14:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think ur wrong, why does it matter how u started being physical. i dont get it. i convinsed my fiance to sleep with me the first time, sometimes men are shy at first. i really dont see the problem
2006-09-09 14:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dicussed an article on it then you are kind of at fault if you say mastuyrbate to a man it turns them on makes them hard in other places you know. i have a fiance of 2 years myself and i know exactly what does it for him...
2006-09-09 14:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. you shouldn't feel like that in a relationship. leave him and find someone who treats you how you should be treated. don't let anyone talk down to you or make you feel bad about yourself
2006-09-09 14:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by christinaz22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he felt insecure and hreaten also and responded wrongly with his frankness
thats why they say you shoulnt kow everything about your partner
marrgaes that last long they dont know everthing about each other
2006-09-10 03:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by alamoblue2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?
I don't understand your question.
What did you say about Masterbation and what did he say to make you feel degraded?
2006-09-09 14:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda confused too
2006-09-09 14:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by newyorkrose9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one is right in this situation. if its hurting ur feelings, tell him and he'll probably stop.
2006-09-09 14:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course your right i would have dumped him right then and there or told him that she has no right to be speaking to me like that
2006-09-09 14:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋