but my bitter thinking will also protect me from the 1000s of messed up women out there. if i were to let my gard down the bad ones would feed on my like fiys on crap so to the few good one im sorry for my harshness its not you it the bad ones. if there were more good women then bad ied be cool, but all i see it liers and women that want men to serve them like some sort of slave. so to the good ones im sorry. i must fight back
2006-09-09 07:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the hardest part about relationships is trust. when you are beginning something new ... it's hard to know if a person is being sincere or if they are just playing games.
for the 1000 women who play games out there ... trust me, there are 1000 men. it's people. i don't know WHY they do it ... but they do. because they are confused? insecure? scared?
the best way to go about embarking on a relationship is start out being friends. if it moves too fast .. it will implode.
think of it like a flower ... (not to be all cheesy) but first you plant the seed. then you tend to it .. water it .. nurture it. pretty soon .. the stem pokes through the ground .. it's growing .... and as you continue to take care of it and be patient .. it grows and grows .. and suddenly, it blossoms into something beautiful.
anything that is worth something .. takes time. look beyond the outside ... look beyond the external beauty. look what's inside a person. i just read a quote the other day and it said:
show me who you walk with and i'll tell you who you are
made PERFECT sense. if you get to know someone .. see how they treat their friends ... their family ... you will get to know the kind of person they really are inside.
there is a good girl out there just waiting for you to find her. don't give up. just take your time and look through the weeds and brush .. you'll see the gorgeous flower.
2006-09-09 08:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by :|: raven :|: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say when you decide you like a woman just take it slow..get to know her really well. Talk about different issues with her openly and what her opinions are. YOU have to get to know how a woman's mind works first before you get too involved. That is the problem with you all. Maybe you come off as defensive to others. You don't have to do any of it. Just be cautious and you'll be fine. Eventually you will be the one to make the decision of whether you want to be with someone or not. As soon as you see red flags...that is the sign dude. I know how you feel. I am a woman and i know tons of woman who do this with men. They start out being really nice then comes the lies and the bossiness. Yep...know all about it.
2006-09-09 14:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro, you sound like me. The only problem is, those defenses will ultimately result in your being alone. I recognize that my bitterness would lead to my being alone so I took the safe way, I learned how to love being alone.
2006-09-09 14:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
some good woman will see through your wall and find the prince inside the frog.Pow,you;ll be sweet again.that's what good women do.you've heard the song by Alicia keys? a real man knows a real woman when he sees her,and a real woman knows a real man ain't afraid too please her.
2006-09-09 14:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's gonna be a very loooonnnng and lonely life for you.
2006-09-09 14:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by Albannach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
il fight wit u baby
2006-09-09 14:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing that someone is correct!
2006-09-09 18:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by umm...yea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋