Hello all. I have a new neighbour. She is so calm and pretty, but I don't know how I can do to talk to her. Sometimes we meet in the lift, but ... nothing. I think I'm too shy. Could you give me some advices please?
2006-09-09 07:43:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first step, and often the hardest is just to say hello. Conversation will move on it's own way from there.
Just try it, and don't give her any corny pick up lines. Be yourself.
Good luck.
2006-09-09 07:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this could be a hard situation, if you are both shy!! try to form some sort of friendship, all you need to do is say hello, wait for the reply and go from there. say something like i see you moved in next door, as her where she comes from that type of thing, i am sure she will always answer, build your friendship and your confidence slowly and go from there. remember that this is a new start for her she is bound to be a little quiet first off as she doesnt know you, but take it easy i am sure if you like her that much you will build up the confidence to speak to her, dont lose her because you never spoke at all, give it a go. have faith in yourself!!!
2006-09-09 15:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by killan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hello to her in the lift! Maybe she is also shy. Be the first to reach out. Who knows, she may feel the same way!
2006-09-09 14:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by wldaz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "Hi" and ask if she is settling in OK, and tell her that if there is anything she needs, or needs to ask or know about the neighbourhood, to feel free to knock your door.
And if you're the newbie on the block, ask if she knows where the nearest DVD rental is, or the nearest library, or cinema or whatever is your interest.
She may be shy as well and glad you broke the ice:-)
Nothing ventured... nothing gained!
2006-09-09 14:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes probebly thinkin da same thing bout u !!! Go round 2 her place and ask can u borrow some suger or something and wen she givs u some ask would she like to come round 2 urs 4 coffee or somthin !!!
2006-09-09 14:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Caroline T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't prepare any particular speech when going if front of her. Someday, if you get to meet her, start with a smile as soon as she notices you and then talk to her without thinking twice. Just start with a praise, or how r u, or how long r u living there, or something like that! Follow it by praises as girls like when you praise them!
Good luck
2006-09-09 15:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by Goldenheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start with Hello. Try making some small talk. Ask about the weather "Wow, is it hot or what?" something like that.
2006-09-09 14:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to her about so much - Is she settling in OK?, anything she wants help with, where did she come here from, just don't interrogate her, keep a look-out for her looking uncomfortable, try becoming her friend first. If you get any signals that you would be welcome to try being more, then act accordingly.
2006-09-09 14:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow some back bone or do some call it spine?? just say hi make casual conversation make friends...it s simple enough
u cud just say " umm ur cute and i was wondering do u have a boyfriend?do u wanna go for dinner 2nite if u say no i understand ur washing ur hair, i'm ugly, oh that was a stupid question i'll just take grandma""
2006-09-09 15:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by pritzy-fairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im on my partners computer so dont be put off by the name,im a female and i just want to say be yourself and try and talk and build a friendship,if it does not work dont worry but it could help your confidence and i wish you all the best good luck
2006-09-09 18:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by kylus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋