ive been with him for 10 months now and hes asked me to marry him. ive moved to a different state and dont get to see him that often . what are the chances that hes not cheating on me and that he really does want to marry me?
2006-09-09 07:39:23 · 19 answers · asked by stacy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he really loves you, the chances of him not cheating - even though he's out of sight are very good. If he's out of state and he wants to keep your relationship going i.e. marry you. You've probably got a faithful guy. Give it a little time to see if the relationship continues to grow, if it does, I wish the both of you all the best as you continue through life together.
2006-09-09 07:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, how old are you? You sound very young, too young to be thinking seriously about marriage.
I'm not saying it won't happen, but I'm saying the chances are slim. My first boyfriend and I dated nine months. We were too young and got too involved too fast. DON'T make that mistake. Please.
You should probably test the waters a little bit more before you decide to settle down with this one guy. You may come back and realize that he IS the one for you, but don't decide until you know what's out there!
2006-09-09 07:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by missesmoo236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve got to give him the benefit of any doubt at least once cos there are a few nice guys still out there. if hes your first real boyfriend then there is a chance that you might get too clingy or he may feel too attached to you. but if hes already asked you to marry him, it could either be a sign of his committment to you or he might be trying to take advantage of your lack of experience in relationships. if your relationsip is strong and he truly loves you than m,aybe he isnt cheating on you. i suggest treading with caution, guarding you rheart but dont turn in to a paranoid person which might push him away. i hope this helps
2006-09-09 07:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by x_shai_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't really think you are going to have a good relationship. Because you both have "needs" that you need from another person and being so far away from one another you can not full fill those needs. Your b/f is probably out full filling his needs at some other girls house. Us girls can keep our needs under control, but guys are no good at keeping anything under control. But maybe you guys can work it out and everything will be okay, but until then.. keep your eyes, and ears open for anything that may sound like he is lying to you! But good luck!
2006-09-09 07:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by Shooting Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose its possible but not a great chance. i heard somewhere that on average most people are with 7 people before they get married.
2006-09-09 07:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by jaystin4g63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you moved to a different state and you dont see him that often that may just be a way of him trying to get you closer to him again.
2006-09-09 07:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by big red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how carefully you chose him if you are over 22 the chances are better under 18 I would say no chance
2006-09-09 07:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zilch Nada, Zero. You need to forget him at least for now, and do some growing.
2006-09-09 07:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u've ever seen boy meets world, then u know that anything is possible. i mean, cory chased tapanga all the way to florida didn't he? i say do what u think is right.
2006-09-09 07:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slim to none
2006-09-09 07:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by Evil Homer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋