I don’t know how to say this so here it goes.
I just felt like kicking my brother in the balls, me and my girlfriends do it all the time in school. So I started playfighting with him, he was letting me win, when he was on the floor facing me I stomped on his balls, he cried but I did it again and one ball slipped out of the way but the othr was kinda trapped and then I felt a pop under my foot; he passed out and turned very pale! I had no idea they could pop! I told my parents it was an accident. His heart almost stopped on the way to the hospital. They managed to save the ruptured testicle but it will not work anymore.
My Mother was so mad; she gave a big beating, and told me to stay on my room until they decide what to do with me!!! She can not beat me like that, that is abuse, and I hate her. My father do not even wants to see me. Why they don’t believe me?! I locked my door. WHAT CAN I DO TO PROTECT MYSELF?!!!! No stupid answers please.
2006-09-09 07:34:16 · 35 answers · asked by a2_sexygirl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Start thinking about your brother instead of yourself. If you show a little remorse for what you did, your parents may start to calm down enough where they don't hurt you. You have some serious issues if you can hurt someone like that and not care. Your parents need to get you some help.
2006-09-09 07:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by Paula from Maple Street 4 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Either you are bull****ting this to try to get some sympathy from PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW, or you are a geniune stupid bicth who has her head stuck too far up her as$ to get that you just ruined your brother's chances of having a normal life, or most likely being able to have children. Both are really pathetic. YES, TESTICLES CAN POP. Pay attention in Sex Ed next time, or were you too busy humping the skeleton model? What, did you expect your parents to find out what happened, then say "Oh, it's okay honey" and give you a nice hug? You deserve everything your parents have given and will give you, because none of it can compare to what your brother has gone and will go through. You're lucky no one's called the police on you yet, because it's punishable by law, and even if you're a minor you can go to some dentention camp. What you did to him would be like someone cutting one of your boobs off and wondering why everyone hates him/her. How would YOU feel? You definitely seem old enough to know better than to mess with ANYONE in their privates area, especially guys. Old enough to have a2_sexygirl as a screen name. I am guessing you're in high school, or maybe junior high. Ever heard of two words called "guilt" or "remorse"? How can you not feel bad for what you did, and care much more about saving your own skin than about the life you just changed, and may have possibly ruined? This was no accident. You are a liar and you make me sick.
2006-09-09 18:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you read the other friggin board you made on the other account AND NOT KICK YOUR FRIGGIN BROTHER IN THE BALLS, YOU INCONSIDERATE JERK?!
Okay. Sorry. I'll help you now:
You really shouldn't have touched him there. And I had no idea they could pop either. Ewww. *shivers* Sorry. Yes, it was an accident, and you must feel horrible, it's your brother. First, I would suggest leaving your parents and being there for your brother and apologizing and telling him you love him. Your mom shouldn't beat you, your parents shouldn't ignore you and deny your existance, that is not what a parent is supposed to do. And if you do feel bad, your parents need to be there for not only your brother, but you too. Now, it's natural human instinct to be mad at you, but if your parents love you enough, they'll get past that and accept your mistakes and forgive you. That's love. And no, you shouldn't be put in a harmful environment, I would suggest staying at a very close friend's house for a while, or maybe a relative who can forgive and understand what you're going through. I'm so sorry for your brother, and you. I can't imagine if my parents did that to me. I know you made a huge mistake, and you might feel stupid, but it's normal to make mistakes, it's okay, you didn't mean any harm, things just happen, and you need all your family to pull together, but that's not gonna happen if your mom isn't even going to accept you right now.
2006-09-09 07:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You purposely stomped on your brother's testicles which caused one to rupture. That is NOT an accident. Do you have any idea of what you have done to him? Do you not care that he will have to go through all kinds of surgery and therapy? Do you not care that you've just cost your parents a sh*t ton of money?! If I were your parent I'd be pissed too!
You don't say how old you are, but I'd have grounded you until you graduated high school. You have no reason to "protect" yourself, your father is obviously too pissed to look at you let alone punish you, and your mom I'm sure didn't kick the living daylights out of you. After they calm down I'm sure they'll discuss your punishment, until that time I suggest you seriously think about what you have done. That was extememely vicious and irresponsible. You better hope to high hell that your brother forgives you.
2006-09-09 07:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by jenpeden 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Criminal. You claim you just wanted to kick him in the balls so you started playfighting, that shows what you did was premeditated. If you're too stupid to know what that means, it means you thought about doing the crime before you did it. You deserve to go to Jail. The fact that you're not their already means either your a big lying smuck trying to grab attention, or your parents didn't tell them what happened yet. Go ahead, call CPS. The truth will come out. You will go to jail. With what the other criminals will do to you in there, you'll beg for your parent's beatings.
What's more, when you get out, you won't be back to your parents. You'll be bounced around foster homes until you're 18, never having a place to call home because noone will adopt a sociopath that commits vile acts of assault like that. That is of course, assuming any foster family is willing to take you in for any length of time knowing what you did to your own brother. This all is of course assuming you get out og jail before then.
And all those people telling you to run away, they are opening themselves up to charges of contributing to the delequency of a minor. For all they know, you just got yout butt spanked. "Big beating" is subjective and in some parts of the country, that just means you got spanked more than once.
Here, here's a list of CPS number: http://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/reslist/rl_dsp.cfm?rs_id=5&rate_chno=11-11172
Go ahead and call, let the truth out. You deserve the punishment still comming to you... Oh yeah, I forwarded this question to them... oops, pandora's box is open now. Just remember, no matter what happens, you brought all this pain on your family, just because you wanted to be a b**** to your brother.
2006-09-09 08:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by Strife 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Um, you severely injured your brother and almost killed him. Shouldn't you be worried about that?
And what you did is assault and battery if the police are called, you could be the one that's arrested and charged.
You're parents shouldn't allow you to have your computer in the bedroom.
And, how would you like it if your brother punched you in the breast every now and again? Or kicked you in the crotch? I'm not sure your mom beat you enough because you can still type.
2006-09-09 11:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wut the *** ur dumb dont hit dudes there unless u are tryin to survive like getting attacked by a rapist or somthing ur parents have the right to beat u they made u plus u had no right to stomp on ur brothers nuts dont u know that could have killed him stop kicking guys in the nuts ur an ( ^ )hole ur brother might not be able to have kids now dillweed now u wont be an aunt go think about the wrong that u have done and then maybe beat ur own ( ^ ) for doin that i am not done yet if i could sentence u with a punishment and it was posible i would give u a pair of nuts and let you brother stomp on them while you were down and crying ya jerk.
2006-09-09 07:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by Swift Angel 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What are you thinking? He must be seriously hurting. YOu need to show some remorse to your parents. If you were my daughter i'd be mad at you too. I think you shoudl stop thinking about your self now and worry about your brother and be more considerate. well..go to your mom after she's calm down from this shock. Tell her that you are really sorry and show some remorse. Well....maybe she'll come around. until then just keep a low profile and show that you are concerend about your brother. Honestly you deserve the beating, this way you know how to behave from now on.
I think you knew you wanted to hurt him come on! you are so lying!
2006-09-09 09:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good, you deserve a beating!!!
You obviously don't give a flip about your brother and all the pain you've caused him, both now and in the future where his ability to father children has been severely compromised.
Stop thinking of yourself and show some remorse for what you did!
If you're lucky, the only thing you'll have to look forward to is being sent to one of those boot camps for juveniles.
2006-09-09 07:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well you did just ruin the family tree to pass on your fathers last name. Since you thought stomping on and popping your brothers balls your mother is just letting you in on a sample of what your brother is going through. You brought this onto yourself. Sorry Kiddo.
2006-09-09 07:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by Liliac 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
You did something awfull. It doesn't matter that you didn't mean it to be that awfull. You obviously are only sorry because now you have to pay the consequences of your actions and that isn't right. Your parents are right to be angry. They are no doubt afraid that they've raised a monster and they don't know what to do.
If you are not a monster, then you will find a way to be truly sorry for what you did. But you are going to have to find a way to prove your sincerity and that is going to be a very hard thing.
You should be ashamed of yourself.
2006-09-09 07:45:49 · answer #11 · answered by icetender 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋