I broke up with my b/f of 1 year about 2days ago for getting online and "talking" to other girls. We have been talking since then and I still love him and want to be together and it is killing me inside. I am not sure if i should give it another chance even though i know he isn't going to change. He gets online and talks to other girls and then calls them and yeah i don't know what else! But he does call them girls baby and sweetie and it makes me feel bad like he is cheating in an odd way. But i love him and he says that he still loves me, but i don't want to get hurt anymore than i already am. I was thinking that i would rather have him in mylife lying to me than him not being with me, but i don't know.. i am Lost! Do you guys think i should him it another chance and try to work it out with him or just forget it and move on with someone else?
2006-09-09 07:31:06 · 13 answers · asked by Shooting Star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I think he doesnt need to be talking to other girls (as if he is not seeing someone) if he is committed to you. I think he needs to wisen up and decide what it is he wants. I would assume he must have a problem with committment if you and him have been together for this long and he doesnt find satisfaction in you alone. I would just move on. Either he would have to change this behavior or I would find someone else. You do not deserve to settle for less that what you want out of a relationship. I know all relationships require alot of give and take. However this falls into a totally different category of low quality of a relationship. I would rather be hurt and give him up than the constant battle of following him around or worrying that he is talking to someone else. As it is now .. he has his cake and gets to eat it too. I wouldnt settle for this behavior. Life is too short to be miserable. The constant worry would make me more than miserable. Its not worth it. Good luck.
2006-09-09 07:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is disrespectful to you and himself. If you have been in a realationship that long and he does things like that then there is a problem. He is bored or ready to move on. Even though you are missing him and hurt you should consider moving on, the next time it could be something worse. You could find him out cheating on you litterally, then imagine how you will feel. Basically the pain now may seem like alot but giving him a second chance may only inable him to hurt you worse later.
2006-09-09 14:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by Southern Comfort 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about the way he does that and how that make you feel. Also tell him if you ever talk to them and call them sweetie n stuff lik that you arent goin to take it. If you are sure he isnt going to change it isnt worth it. Move on with someone else to keep your mind of him.
2006-09-09 14:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by sophia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on. He doesn't seem a trustable person. I don't think you would like to be with him but at the same time he is with some other girl.... The more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer, because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you, in proportion to your fear of being hurt... life goes on.
2006-09-09 14:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by Devil^Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say move on. you obviously felt strongly on why you broke up with him, or you wouldn't have broken up with him. if you know he's not going to change, then you wouldn't be happy in your relationship. you're always going to have a soft spot for him in your heart because you had such strong feelings for him. let him go and another guy will come your way when you're least expecting it.
2006-09-09 14:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by christinaz22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you love him and he says he loves you, than you should give him a 2nd chance. except this time set some rules for him. you should tell him that you don't want him calling any other girls names besides you.
2006-09-09 14:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by big red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
If you're 16, dump him and move on.
If you're 48, learn to live with it.
Somewhere in between, use your judgment.
2006-09-09 14:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by ThatGuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him but not with yelling and screaming if he keeps doinit stop asap cause youd get hurt again plus your probubly a great girl and he should have no reason to have to flirt with other girls
2006-09-09 14:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Dannyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk and an idiot. There are tons more guys out there and tons of time left to find one.
2006-09-09 14:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by J G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on... If he gets his kicks online.. What's to say he isn't some wierd perv?
2006-09-09 14:37:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋