my boyfriend broke up with me last night...and I've been crying since. I probably only stopped crying for a couple hours and then started up again. I hate it when ever i go through a break up because im always depressed for a couple weeks before im back to normal. Is it just me?
2006-09-09 07:28:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perfectly normal - Use this time to get to know yourself. Get out of the house and fine new interests and people.
Chin up!
2006-09-09 07:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the way you describe things. If I'm getting it correct this seems not to have been your first break up in a relationship. If such is the case, you need to make sure that it is not some thing about you that is causing a potential partner to break up with you.
Talk to people that know you a long time as well as people that you trust, that will give you an honest opinion about your self to make sure the problem is not with you that is causing some one to break up.
If you are the cause you need to work on the problem, so that the next time some one comes a long you will not be in that same predicament.
Secondly : You also need to try and avoid people that will only break your heart in the future. There are things we can look out for to see the Red Flags as they unfold.
2006-09-09 14:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think that happens to everyone that has a heart and actually was into the relationship. Though I've never cried over a girl but when I go through a break-up I usually feel numb. Like even breathing has become too big of an effort. So I just sort of sit there and think about all the moments that has happened and sit there more and be really sad.
At least it's a sign that you really liked him
2006-09-09 14:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 100% normal. Virtually everyone has been dumped at some point in their life and it hurst. Your love is still intact and your boyfriend and just simply ripped his love away from you. Of course you feel depressed.
Just remember, there are many more guys out there and the perfect one is among them ..... unfortunately though we tend to need to go through a lot of losers to find the right one.
Get your smile back fast and get back into the game --- put your flirt on and in no time you'll have someone .... maybe not the one you will be with forever and ever but you'll still be able to enjoy his company nonetheless.
2006-09-09 14:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, believe me, I feel your pain. My boyfriend and i broke up last weekend, and I went through the same thing. Feeling depressed and hurt is completely normal and healthy. In fact, I'd worry if you didn't feel some degree of hurt.
Now what you need to do:
If he broke up with you, you don't need him. There is no point in trying to make someone love you, because it would only be lying to you. Go out and search for someone who likes you for you. Take three days TOPS to mourn your breakup.
Then pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and tell yourself what a great person you are. You will find someone so much better than your ex that you won't even remember his name.
After your three days, take some time alone to find out about yourself. Go shopping. Eat ice cream and fast food (just not too much). Take up a new hobby. Discover who you are on your own. Stop looking for a relationship, and one will undoubtedly find you. And if you know who YOU are, it will be infinitely easier to find a guy who likes you for you.
Good luck, honey. I wish only the best for you!
2006-09-09 14:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by missesmoo236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years. It is really hard, but I want you to try this. Write a list of all of the things you like about him. Fold the list on half and burn it.
Then write a list of all of the things you don't like about him. Hang it up somewhere that you can see it. Then whenever u feel sad, all you'll see is the bad things, and it won't hurt so bad.
2006-09-09 14:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal,so give yourself time and
try to do things that make you feel better!!!
2006-09-09 14:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋