I have never had a boyfriend, mostly because I've seen guys be complete a**holes everywhere, including on tv, to my friends, and just when they are talking to eachother. It seems to me that all they are interested in is having sex with as many girls as possible, bragging about sexual encounters, and talking about girls in a completely disrespectful and rude way. I think they will never be satisfied with one girl, because to them girls arent real people and are just objects, like laptops, that they have to replace and upgrade every once in a while. even some questions asked by guys on yahoo answers completely disturb me. i find it impossible to be attracted to someone who i know doesnt care about me at all and only wants to hook up with me and then leave because im not good enough for him anymore. Does anyone think it is stupid to give guys what they want (sex) when you know that they have no feelings for you (even if they say they do to get you in bed) and will ultimately leave you?
2006-09-09 07:00:51 · 12 answers · asked by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They just want sex.
But sometimes it does happen that a guy falls for a girl and he will date her even when she tells him she doesn't just sleep with any Tom, Dick, or Harry, and he will have to really get to know her before she would consider him a sexual partner.
A guy who wants to be with you knowing that he isn't going to get sex at the end of the evening is the only kind of guy a woman should consider dating
It is stupid have sex with someone because they will leave you if you don't.
2006-09-09 07:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by acornfullfilled 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi... im don. what you are talking is a bunch up spoiled brats. i do agree there are guys like that, but guys do feel sorry about that you know there are many guys who are sincere in love they just dont think about any other girls, if you are really in love with that guy, no matter what he'll just love you and not sex you have to be careful sweetie coz the world is big keep searching for your MR.RIGHT he's out there some where... you have to ask him a question that makes him realise that he's doin wrong..
2006-09-09 07:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by donjaved 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women - We have issues to, but you can meet someone who is not going to use you for sex . Try to look for a man in a nursing home and quit dreaming. Life is what it is, we as people anyway watch too much t.v. and think wow i'll meet a man like Brad Pitt or Will Smith to romance me . And nine times out of ten it will never happen so my advice is to live in reality girl.
2006-09-09 07:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by No 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're talking about "some" men. I've been married for fifty two and a half years. My wife is anything but a sex object. We tell each other that we love each other dozens of times every day. And we sure do mean it.
No, we're not one in a million. We have friends and neighbors who have been married even longer, and who would find it difficult to get by if one happened to die.
Maybe there's something about you that's attracting the kind you describe. Whatever the reason, please don't blame all men.
2006-09-09 07:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
perhaps it's just the type of guy you've been with ..
or perhaps you have exceptions that can't be met..
sex is a piece of the pie and should not be used as a control device .. you must except a person for who they are and not try to change them .. find somebody you like the way they are .. you need to make yourself happy 1st and not rile on others to do that for you .. change yourself and you will attract the better side of others .. find some inter piece ( take Tia-chi or yoga ) and you may see life in a better light .. good luck girl..
2006-09-09 07:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never really felt like I was subjugating myself with my husband. My hardest issue to deal with is the fact that I am a COMPLETE control freak from the house, kids, to money. (He has three children from 2 previous relationships.) Now my biggest issue is to pamper him and not smother him because he does have serious health issues, and I have had to adjust my habits and how I act with him, because for awile there I basically treated him like one of the kids. The whole you can't do this, you can do this......the usual. He had a harder time with me, because his two ex's weren't responsible and dependable so it took me about 6 years to get him to relax. He was more like your wife in this case. He went from abuse to him and the kids, from drug and alcohol abuse, and abandonment......a whole lot of crapola. In time she'll realx and twenty years from now you'll both have a little groove thing going on, lol! I have to admit, I am a pretty awsome to my other half too, so how can I flame you for just being honest? LMAO!!!
2016-03-17 10:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's stupid to give guys sex when they have no feeling for you and will quickly dump you. Lucky for all us guys that most girls are dumb.
Guys never feel guilty about treating a woman badly...guys don't ''feel'' much to start with, anyway.
And there are a couple of us, rare good guys who want love....but you'll just overlook us because we are not the super hot rock hard guys with lots of money and fancy cars.
2006-09-09 07:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, we can fall in love and we can feel bad for treating a girl badly.
2006-09-09 07:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop dating losers.
2006-09-09 07:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to look good, there are a few decent guys left, or at least I hope so.
2006-09-09 07:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋