How Do You Talk To White Girls??

Question

ok, i'm a white dude and i grew up in the urban city area, so basically in "da hood." i've almost exclusively dated only black and spanish females.

i went to a black college, so i dated only black females there and i liked it. it was cool. and the fact that i dated a bunch of black females should let you know that i'm not an ugly guy, because black women are very picky about looks, especially if they're gonna date outside their race.

so anyway, now i transferred to a major university because they offer a better program in my major (bio).

this university is mostly white and i've only been there for less than two weeks. it's cool and all, but i really don't even know how to approach white females. they're pretty and everything, but i don't know how to talk to them.

i'm not shy or anything, but i'm also not the biggest extrovert, plus the white females just seem so different than what i'm used to.

how do you talk to them? is there something i need to know ahead of time??

it just seems like the black or spanish girls had more in common with me and they were easier to talk to. the white girls seem very shy when it comes to guys and somewhat uninviting. i don't know.

when i sit in class, i can hear them talk to each other and they sound something like this: so, like, there's this big, like, party tonight, and, like, what do you guys, like, think? should we, like, go there?

so how do i approach someone with that type of upbringing?

i'm not going to sit here and lie. i'm trying to date and f*ck some of these girls. i like all women.

any pointers would be appreciated.

Answer 1

It's not what you sat but how you say it!!!!

Answer 2

I'm a "white girl" and haven't heard somebody talk how you were describing since the 4th grade.

Just approach them and say what ever comes to mind.....as long as its nothing rude or offensive of course. White women are the same as every other race....it all just depends on where you grow up. I'm from the south, and I personally don't like the whole "white trying to be black" deal, and neither does my best friend and she is black. Now, I have another friend who is just moved here recently from Chicago and she loves guys like you.

Sorry, I guess I'm not of much help but that's just what I've observed.

Answer 3

I think soothsayer said it best, white women want the black attitude in a "safe" white package. However, you can come off as a white guy trying to act black even though you grew up in the hood. It's upsetting that you'll be labeled as a wanna be when that's who you actually are...just find some brothers who are having sex with those girls...they'll show you the way. And let me know the secret too...

Answer 4

Silly boy! Your question is funny but it is for real. I am Black and met a White boy once who would get uncomfortable and shake around White people! He went to a 5% White school. I invited him over to my table of friends at a local club whom happened to be White and he got up and walked away in only 4 minutes! He told me the reason why later.

I hate to say this, but some of my preppy White female friends liked being challenged, avoided and ignored and went for the cocky guys who ignored them. Then they would complain when the guy was 'too much in love with them.' They would also complain when they were nearing their 30s and ended up alone or 'settling' b/c they passed up the good guys. Some of my White friends that were hippies and down to earth were not like that, they just go for the nice guy even if he has yella' teeth!


All I can say is, if you plan on humping these girls and leaving them, then you deserve to have some snob snub you. You should not be having sex with girls you are not married to, women have feelings, you know. You should make it clear way ahead of time you only want to date a girl who only wants sex just like you.

But to answer your question. How to talk to a White girl in school........Hmmmmmmm....the guys I know started by cracking funny, but not hurtful, jokes. Girls always tell their friends about the funny guy in class. Or, say you need to study with someone on a subject, say " I noticed you had the right answers in class." Spark up a conversation by borrowing a pencil or paper. Invite yourself to their party, say " where is this party at tonight?"

Basically, this has worked on every color girl that I have seen, the same methods work on all women to spark up a conversation, it's just different once the relationship gets started. If you are extra bold, you can even peek over her shoulder when she is like, checking her cell phone, and like, you know, like say, "hey there, do you have ME in your phone list!"

Answer 5

Depends if you want a white thug girl, or a well-mannered, delicate white girl. I wouldn't change yourself for the former, but for the latter, just try being more refined. Pay attention to details, and be reliable.

Answer 6

Use your immense breakdancing talent to woo the lead ballet dancer at your school...thereby causing you both to have to team up together to get a scholarship or sum crap while inadvertently falling in love.

And yes, Im referencing Step Up.

Answer 7

try looking past skin color, hair color, eye color and culture

I am like yourself, dated other cultures almost exclusively and find my own culture of seeming inability to accept diversity as appalling

my father even told me one memorable day..stick to your own kind...and thankfully I did not

talk to all men and women with respect, showing open mind and tollerance for your differences, maybe find out what they are interested in and let them do all ..... alll.... ALLLL the talking

we all have red blood and share same planet find what is in common rather what is different and things usually go well

Answer 8

Talk like you normally talk to black and spanish ladies. Hey any honky b*i*t*c*h wanna date me? lmao I aint no bad trying do rap version here lol not even American here

Answer 9

It doesn't matter. White women aren't different from any other woman. Just be yourself. I wouldn't want someone who is fake. I'm latina by the way.

Answer 10

"when i sit in class, i can hear them talk to each other and they sound something like this: so, like, there's this big, like, party tonight, and, like, what do you guys, like, think? should we, like, go there?"

LOL

tel you what white chicks wants, they secretly want black guys (in the way they walk and talk), but in a white format. so you wil be very popular.

Answer 11

Dude you got a hurdle to jump