Ok, I was in a relationship with this girl from college and we were together for about 4 months, I came really close to her, we did things together everyday. She was my first real girlfriend, I know I had a lot of feelings for her, and her impression in words and affection seemed the same. Then all of a sudden she emails me telling me her and her therapist decided she shouldn't be in a relationship at this time. I emailed her asking if we could be friends about a week after she broke things off, she didn't respond, I even called her once and left a voicemail. I have been trying to go about my life, but can't get her off my mind, I have very few friends to start with. I have seen her on campus a few times, and she might wave or just try to ignore me. I have talked to her once when I saw her, asked her how she was doing, she never asked how I was doing. Just the other day its been about a month now I sent a sincere email asking why she doesn't want to talk to me, and telling...
2006-09-09 06:50:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that I cared about her as a friend and if she ever needed someone to talk to or do something with I would be there. I was just wondering if I am just beating a deadhorse, and just move on. She is bipolar, but she seems pretty controled, so I don't know if that plays a factor. I just don't understand how someones feelings can change in such a short period. I still really care about her, but want her to at least tell me straight up to stop talking to me, she sent me a birthday wish, I don't like the false sense of hope. I don't know I am just confused and hurt by all of it.
2006-09-09 06:54:05 · update #1
Dude she dumped you and gave you a lame excuse. You need to just accept it and move on. If a girl needs a therapist already you dont want that baggage to deal with anyway. I promise.
2006-09-09 06:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by cannon1977 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I KNOW THIS IS HARD..... But just let her go. U cant make someone love you, talk to you, care for you, or anything else... Ignore her if you see her, dont send her emails or call her anymore. If she wants to talk to you, she will give in after a while, if she doesnt, then oh well, u didnt need her in the first place. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-09-09 06:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how hard this is, but you must let go. Breaking things off cleanly is the only way to start healing and go on with your life. I highly recommend a book called "Life after Love". I think that's the title. Anyway, it's about how to grieve for a lost relationship, either by death or by choice, your's or the other person's. I know the pain is horrible now, but if you lean into it and let yourself feel it, it will gradually become less and less painful and you will be able to go on. Surely God has a better plan for your life than a person who will believe a therapist over her feelings for you. Pray that God will send you the best possible person. He knows who it is.
2006-09-09 06:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Teddie M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what you are going through...honestly it is going to be hard but maybe this is a good time to get more friends and maybe even in the process you will find someone else...and now your probably thinking i don't want anyone else but i will tell you..maybe she just needed space and i know that it is going to be hard to get over but believe me you will get over it. and maybe in the future you can try again... good luck
2006-09-09 06:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by gracelindsy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u pathetic loser find another girl
2006-09-09 06:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by im so fly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋